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    medicine help after eating shit & diarrhea

    I deal with raw sewage occasionally. I havent yet contracted any type of infection as a result but I know a guy who caught meningitis from a small spatter in the face.
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    Consent on a Nude Beach

    I agree with mistress. there was a nude beach in australia that my parents liked to go to. Never a second thought about bringing the kids. Gay Head beach in Marthas Vineyard ...no way im taking my kids there.
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    Need Help- PM Me?

    A well balanced, well adjusted and well rounded individual is pretty rare AFAI'mConcerned. Most people have a quirk or two.:p There are meds, sure. I've had horrible second hand experiences with supposedly safe drugs which I didn't think were necessary in the first place. I feel that...
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    why does it hurt(in a bad way)

    Are you using lubrication? Dry sex hurts and will make you raw. I would give it a rest (a week maybe) and start over...with liberal amounts of lube. I would see the quack if I were you. Find a female ObGyn and pop a Xanax. Best of luck.
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    So confused and so many questions????/

    Hi Rainey, I'm glad you found a forum in which to express yourself and seek advice. About the restraining of the hands. Maybe you could try the finger lacing, hand holding thing. Like in the movies. To him, it could feel less violent then holding your wrists and he could feel more like he's...
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    Insight

    My wife has said before, that she would get off seeing me suck a dick or take it in the pooper. She's fierce about other women though. I have a feeling, it's not an uncommon fantasy.
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    Advice on a cheating sub...

    That sux Caroline! I'm sorry :( I agree with both of these guys. Also, I don't know about your man's story. I don't know if it's because you wrote those words and gave them your spin. Either im a cynical asshole or im reading into your interpretation of what was said and how. If the latter is...
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    Hesitant Boyfriend Part Deux- My Turn to Dom

    So funny. I was reading your other thread and was debating weather or not to suggest you two take turns. I think it would certainly compress the learning curve and help you understand and trust one another. Sebastian is an authority (pun intended). Definitely do your homework on bondage for...
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    Hesitant Boyfriend- How to Get Past Scars?

    These are cases of topping from the bottom thinks I. I have a little experience with this also. But my wife is classic dominatrix. Until about two years into our marriage, she was repressed, big time. Wouldn't allow herself to even considder kinky sex let alone BDSM. 13 years later, here I am...
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    subs, whats in it for you?

    I was going to mention this but it seemed a little redundant. It's seldom you meet someone and trust them immediately and completely. Intimacy is one thing but you could be entrusting your very life to someone you don't know that well. Even that is usually an afterthought to the idea of...
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    Let's Define Pornography!

    I'm not disagreeing, per se, but i have my own definition based on what comes to my mind at the suggestion of pornography. The word, to me, means to record an actual erotic event. To exploit, in this context, means simply to use for ones self.
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    Let's Define Pornography!

    I don't mean to imply that exploitation is necessarily bad. I consider myself neutral in the porn debate. As a pseudo visual artist I am, however, hopelessly biased. Porn must be a visual representation of real people. Otherwise, it's erotica.
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    Let's Define Pornography!

    Nah. Written would be literal and i would call that erotica. To me, porn would need to exploit at least one actual being. Literature is erotica, as would be a drawing or sculpture....from my POV of course. Clearly there is still discussion on the subject. I consider pornography to be more then a...
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    Let's Define Pornography!

    LOL!!:clap:
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    Let's Define Pornography!

    Being a photographer, i would add that it kinda has to be recorded on some type of visual media.
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