Recent content by Sweetpea and J

Tee hee! My surprise leg spreaders arrived yesterday! Very exciting! I also have some nipple clamps on the way... And two new gags! J and I have made progress with our discussions .... All I want to do now is decide on some limits. This is something I'm quite adamant on even if it's only...

I totally get the whole 50's thing. It's so sexy and beutiful to see a lady dressed in beautiful underwear (bullet bras, girdles etc) with her hair in rolls. Even an everyday 50's look... Teadress and victory rolls, knotted hair tie... Squee! I love the whole 50's women in uniform too. I...

This describes me to a 't' I too have never been able to cum other than thru masterbation alone. I get so, so close with J and over the past few weeks it's like I could touch it... But I just cannot get over the final hurdle. Sometimes it's so close it hurts physically. :-( It's always...

Hello, I totally understand your feelings. I think as the two previous posts say you are perfectly ok to feel this way. I would also totally agree that it makes sense not to make it the issue and to maybe solve it by finding a solution. I hope you can sort this one way or another... And...

Well, I finally bit the bullet (not the vibrating type) and asked J about maybe trying a slave/master relationship... And he said yes. Were starting off at maybe one night per week or so cause I feel it will take some getting used to even tho I want it. We haven't used those terms yet... Well...

Thank you so much for all the help and advice guys.. Its been a lovely welcome. :-)

I don't think I'd have it in me to be a total 24/7 kinda sub. LOL Too dammed bossy. Again, these relies are so helpful to the newbies here so thanks for taking the time to reply. I suspect eventually we will have to sit down and discuss some 'rules' bit that will come in time. J is...

That was actually a really helpful reply. The limits and rules you and your hubby set are a good idea. J tends to not like that sort of thing tho... Finds it too structured. But we can work on something that suits us both.

Sweetpea because that's just what J calls me sometimes and I like it. And J is his initial. I wanted this to be a joint effort... Hence sweetpea and J.

I've always been a bit wobbly but after 2 botched c-sections I also have a severe overhang which renders teeny tiny knickers impossible as they simply shrivel up and die amidst my flab! Lol lol lol. In fact we had a rather amusing moment last week where some latex knickers I purchased simply...

Thanks for the messages. Yes, smallest I think the others have nailed it by guessing that I have insecurities about my weight and not lookong good in say latex or rubber. My relationship with J is not (yet) a master/slave one but more, at present, an exploratory one. Having said that, I do...

It's not something I'd like to do TBH. I guess being new may affect this choice but I can't see either myself or J getting into it. Having said that I actually haven't asked J if he would like it....hmmm?

Hi, I'm new to this and cannot even begin to understand your feelings but I simply wanted to say how sad I feel for you. I do hope it gets better for you... It's almost like a withdrawal I guess? I'm sure the more experienced members on here will be able to offer help and support. Good luck.

Hi everyone, New to the site (as my post indicator will indicate) and new to bdsm. I say new but I guess the 'new' bit relates to actually doing it. I think if I am honest then I have always had 'leanings' towards this type of sexual play and have just not been brave enough to admit it. Many...