Recent content by sweetling91

I think you might have more luck posting this in another thread. It's not exactly a question meant for BDSM experience discussions.

Hi Sebastian, I have been talking to my dom in length about it and he assured me that we are going slow and step by step since his goal isn't to scare me off. He wants my time with him to be an enjoyable and educational experience. Right now he has to go away for a few weeks, so he asked me...

Hello everyone! I do realize that this question must have been posted already but I can't seem to find it anywhere, so I opted to post it again. My current situation is that I finally found a considerate and willing Dom to train me in real life despite my having no experience at all in the...

Smallest, Thank you, thank you, thank you for the really long reply. I think I needed to hear all that since I've been told that I'm too nice and timid for my own good sometimes. After reading through your response I've realized that I did egg some of them on at some point although I really...

Hi Sebastian, Your answer was appreciated but I wasn't really referring to creeps online, since I do know how to fend them off if they are too creepy and persistent. My problem is more with the real world outside where I seem to attract creepy guys like a magnet but not only creepy and very...

Hi Stanley, Thanks for your reply ^^ It helped me to read that it's not uncommon to be in my situation. It did freak me out but thankfully I have great friends, who helped me deal with some of it (the old grandpa is still a source for bad dreams though) by talking about playing some practical...

Hi everyone, First I should say that I'm still relatively new to this lifestyle after engaging with it for a few weeks online up until now. I'm still discovering myself slowly and steadily and I've already noticed that I've gained a new kind of confidence in myself, which is really awesome...

Would be helpful if we know which area you live in. Or else someone from across the world could reply. Just something to think about ^^

Hi jersey, If you want to find your Dom then you should maybe post this with a little bit more info in the personals section of this forum. I would also recommend you to read the newscomers FAQ if you haven't already.

Hi again, First of all it is normal to over think things when you're nervous and I would be too if I were in your shoes. I'm just going with instinct and common sense now, so anybody correct me if I'm wrong. First thing you do is to check out if the organizers have a list of rules you...

Hi mistywillow I can remember reading something about the etiquette for any sort of play parties in the newcomers FAQ but I can't remember the exact words anymore. So before I say something wrong, just check it out. I think it was Sebastian who posted it. Have fun together

Hi, First of all welcome in this forum. Now to your question. I think there are some first scene scenarios in this forums newcomers FAQ (page 4) if you haven't read it then you should. There are many tips and tricks in there for both you and your sub and you could come across some new...

Hey heather! I was reading your post because I thought there's someone else out there who is shy and can't talk so easily about BDSM. Your post was a bit disturbing for me though. I think Sebastian was right in his post. But I'll try to help you guys! I'm pretty shy in sexual matters too. I...

I've never realized how much one can do with a few clothespins and also how much they can hurt. My nipples and breasts were so sensitive afterward that taking a shower or wearing clothes was a bit painful. I was sensitive for quite some hours which was annoying. I'm wondering if everyone is so...

Thanks Stanley and Sebastian for replying ^^ It's nice to know that my reactions are normal. I've already taken measures against the things that you guys warned me of. But thanks for reminding me again. I would never want to expose my family to this if I'm not sure that its part of my life...