I agree 100% with the above posts from sebastian and smallest. Simply singling out male doms in the bdsm community and accusing them of being glorified 'rapists' is pretty wrong. I'm a sub and I've been sexually abused before but it had nothing to do with anyone in the bdsm community. Honestly...
Greetings!
I am a 22 year old female sub of mixed race living in south florida.
I definitely fell into the BDSM scene by accident and thus found part of myself within it. I'm still very new and definitely have a lot of learning to do. I also recently stopped talking to my first dom ever and...
Well, i spoke to the new guy in my life about what i prefer and i was as honest i possibly be. He doesn't mind experimenting and trying his best to make me happy but i told him the truth; i just don't see him that way. Although i respect and like him a lot as a person, i can't take orders from...
I did consider that but the new guy is actually really special. He's sweet, caring etc etc. I wanna see where it goes. But I feel like something is missing. And I think that 'something' is a master.
He stopped talking to me for a couple of weeks. And these are the texts from when he suddenly decided to contact me again:
Him: How's your "relationship" doing?
Me: What the...i'm not in a 'relationship' right now.
Him: Good. I might need your services soon. Very soon.
Me: I am not a...
Hi, my name is Ana and i'm a sub. I'm new but pretty familiar with the scene. Recently, I engaged in a sexual relationship (without commitment) with a guy that I came to realize I have feelings for that are pretty intense. From day one, it was supposed to be a 'fuck buddy' thing but for some...