Recent content by stanley_jeffries

The only suggestion I can add to what Sebastian is saying is to maybe create a scene that is different from the "rough sex" scenario that might remind her of her ex. Let me give you a simple example just to illustrate what I'm saying. She likes being slapped on the cheek, OK. But doing...

Cutting all the crap out - it's definitely you :-) In all scenes like this it's the Dom's job to stay in control. Asking if the sub was "a little too sweet" isn't a valid option. First question - were you sober? Drugs/alcohol and roleplay don't mix too safely. If you were sober then I...

Hi Smallest, I don't think melting would work because the material would have been "cured" (also known as vulcanizing). In other words the polymer chains are cross-linked chemically. Once rubber is cured it will not melt, which is why you can't recycle car tyres, for example. If you heat...

As Sebastian says, your wife may be afraid, or simply uneasy about her vision being blocked. I'd advise you not to push that particular limit as it could cause her to step back from kinky play altogether. However, if she's more concerned about the claustrophobic feel of an enclosure hood...

I think most of the obvious ones have been covered. You mention "household objects", and I understand that basically these need to be things that do not arouse suspicion. Would she also be able to buy something specific? I'm thinking of a "punishment mat". The ultimate one is the Lotus Mat...

Even though NuWest is long gone, you might be able to realize your fantasy with a production house like ClubDom. http://www.clubdom.com But these ladies do not fuck around - those whippings and canings are in HD and seem to be very real :-) I suppose NuWest could get away with faking it (if...

Hi RS24, I know exactly what you mean. When I look at these videos I always assumed they were using some kind of lightweight material. As Smallest asked, I grabbed a couple of screen caps. Sadly the quality of these videos is terrible as I suspect they were captured from very early VHS...

>>>Not exactly, my fetish turns cuckolding on it's head. My ideal MMF scenario is a male dom/sadist with a male and female sub at the same time. A common cuckolding scene is for a dominant male (a "Bull") to fuck the woman, and then for the submissive male (the "cuckold") to lick her pussy (or...

Hi Omnivore, I think this seems to be a very common kink - especially in the form of cuckolding. You'll find a ton of movies on this theme these days. Is that the context you were thinking of? Cheers, Stanley

Hi, I agree with Sebastian - BDSM doesn't seem to have reached Sligo yet :( I did a quick search for RoI Dommes, and found this page... http://ireland.backpage.com/Domination/ I've only ever driven as far as Athlone from Dublin, but I know the roads in the center of Ireland can be pretty...

The Friend Zone article isn't really meant to be a recipe to follow exactly, because we're talking about human feelings and interaction here, and that contains a huge element of randomness. At the end of the day it's really about you having confidence in yourself, and trusting your judgment...

Nice videos. Just a couple of suggestions. Obviously you need to preserve anonymity, so instead of worrying about including her face by mistake, why not buy a simple mask? If you search for Zentai masks on EBay you can pick them up really cheaply. That will allow you to do wider...

Hi sweetling, It all sounds relatively normal to me (apart from the creepy grandfather...shudder!). In terms of guys finding you more attractive, I think maybe your new confidence is causing that. So many people have a hang up about looks being all important, and I think we can all accept...

I think your options are: Use a site that's intended for cloud backup. Examples: Wuala: https://www.wuala.com/ DropBox: https://www.dropbox.com/ There are plenty more examples, but these are two that I'm aware of. Both of these are free, and the great thing is that to share videos...

I think this depends on how much the slave "telegraphs" his climax. If it's pretty obvious then there are quite a few options, and these will be more or less effective depending on how desperate he is, how close he is to coming, etc. Just let go. A lot of men need tactile stimulation right up...