Recent content by Sleepy

Out of those specifically I voted 1, however I'm not a huge fan of how trainer ball gags look in general, so I would probably suggest otherwise, that's just me.

That's not a shock collar, it's called a pager collar. There's no electricity involved. Notice how they put this into their description: * Pager non-electrical stimulation.

Actually I had this problem too, and I found a funny solution. I steered my girl to tell me what fetishes she knew about, and when she didn't mention it, I started naming some off. After each fetish I got her opinion and told her mine, then when we got to watersports I simply blurted out, "Well...

Experience doesn't come from the length of time one performs an action. I can tighten and loosen a spring in a clock over and over, that won't make me a master horologist, instead it will weaken the clock's integrity. Five years might sound impressive, he might know how to flog properly and tie...

Well wearing things on the left and right all started in the gay community as a sign for each other. Back when homosexuality was more secretive, the method of communicating was done in 'Hankie Code', I believe that's what you're referring to with left and right side. If I remember correctly...

And they would need to be made pitch black over the pupils, rather than that image where it's just tinted heavily.

I would like to point out, as someone who's worn stage contacts before, that they WOULD be very noticeable. The eyes would be entirely black, even where they should be white. For this to work the eyes would be quite easily noticed as unusual. It's a good idea, but for the people saying it could...

I've read recently about figging, my girl wants to try it so I've been doing research. According to what I've read, it's safe to use vaginally however the effect is less. If you want to use pain without damaging, anally is better. In fact most women who've tried figging vaginally and reported to...

If you don't mind spending some money, This Store sells perfectly sized bags to carry stuff discretely, and they are lockable so it's good for keeping nosy people out of it. On top of that they come in all sizes/shapes so you can get bags that look like they might be holding a telescope or full...

I have a running rule with my pet that she is to refer to me as 'My love' whenever we are somewhere near people she works with. She can do any 'pet name' basically, like 'My dear', etc, just as long as she doesn't say my name. Maybe you could try using that technique.

Hah, I plan on it. However I'm going to be moving soon so I can't afford to purchase it yet. I was more looking for sources. I'll try to get a picture of my pet and I dressed up in the future too, or I might just have her join the site herself ;p

Is it weird that I get horny when I'm in Home Depot now? I see this thing and wonder if I should get two o.o

Sounds good to me. I know where I can get most of that fairly inexpensively (and I already own a plain black shirt, I'm wearing it now ;p). I was also thinking of purchasing some carbonear clips to hook to the belt to attach rope and various toys to for when I need my hands. I'm a bit of a...

You're right, they do not seem like something I would wear, to 'sub-ish' if that's a word. I don't know about 'fetish wear' concepts, remember I'm new to the scene so I don't know what all the terms mean yet. I guess I'll just pick up a pair of leather pants and then a burgundy shirt or...

I usually keep my hair short and my nails/toenails trimmed nicely. That part will be easy, but a lot of the play parties specifically use the phrase 'fetish wear'. For that, would slacks be suitable? I'm thinking instead of slacks leather pants, but I still don't know if that's all it takes to...