Recent content by Sir Vicarious

you can add me, I have 11 years experience and would be willing to answer any questions/ help you out where i can.

lol, i started reading that and it reminded me of a few bitchy gf's in high school. So maybe since your into the age play, do it that way. Start out as a highschool bitchy gf, then have your "Teacher/ hs bf etc" do the rest.

How you do it depends on your area and situation. look for a local munch where you can meet different dom's etc. Once they know and trust you, you can learn about different bdsm clubs in the area. Also if you want and can't do a full time dom, get a play partner dom. or a casual dom, someone...

I have added your hotmail. we will talk.

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This is sooo in the wrong thread.

good, point but not what I meant. I was referring to the sub's respect. Nut you make a good point too.

I would also add, that a dom is not a dom, till he learns to control himself. That means knowing when to dom, as well as how to. A sub is a sub to a specific dom, just because your a dom, DON'T assume you are his/her dom.

I would add, when a dom has lost respect... he has lost everything.

no thanks are needed, it is the truth.

Good advice, too many people assume bdsm is abuse, and thus act accordingly. Submission is NEVER abuse. It is the Dom's job to protect the sub, not to cause scars.

This is a technique I call fire and ice. It involves fire, Think flambe.., so it is risky, and you need to be safe. This may also take three people, you, the dom to do it, and the third to take the pic at the appropriate time. To do this first read about flambe, because basically that is...

I agree totally with rs, be safe, do research and find out what you need to know. Keep in mind also the type of rope/ equipment and the style your going for, some ropes are harsher than others, and some styles are meant to be tight and restrictive, others are meant to remind the sub that they...

I thought I would use this thread to share ideas on what everyone does to keep play time fun, non-repetitive etc. Well, Since I am a sensory dom, alot of the time I keep my sub blindfolded, ear plugs etc, and also make very little sound. Also I have dice and spinners I use. this sort of...

I agree here too, that is why I sometimes have a "practice round" before I try new things. This would be a walk through of something I think pushes a subs soft limits. What I am saying is this: using water sports as an example, I might have them do that in the shower, outside of normal...