Recent content by Shepherd1

I'm interested in other Dom's experiences, or subs, about training your sub, or being trained. My particular question revolves around training her in O. My quandary is that my sub has an interesting block, when she's ready to climax its apparent. But holding her through it and not allowing her...

I find that bringing my sub to tears is a clear indicator that her needs are being met, and mine too. Thankfully, as a sadist, I've found a true masochist that enjoys the painful play as well as physiological play. I relish in the fact that I've tasted her tears many times. But like mentioned...

Back on topic... Perfect. I came up with a few ideas. Some I've done to my sub, and some I'd like to perform. 1) Start with a 2 qt. enema. More can be administered but that's a good start. After the enema is given, you will want to release. Your Dom should make you hold out as long as...

I agree smallest. That was definitely NOT a waste of time writing. Some of those were not only dangerous, but illegal and possibly fatal. Being that I've seen, and have been one, a lot of newbies on here; suggesting stuff of that nature could cause irrefutable damage and confusion to someone...

The first thing that came to mind; and I've heard it here many times; is having him masturbate; to release or not your choice; in a public place. Like a work bathroom stall or a dressing room. And you an set this up via text message or a predetermined time of the day. Another would be for him to...

I myself couldn't imagine switching places with my sub. It's not in me to submit. As my sub is both masochistic and sadistic, she has asked me to let her perform her wants on me. Because of my deep love for my pet; I gave it a whirl. Never again. The common thread I find on here and other places...

Thank you slavegirl. We have used it a couple of times and we both have found it to be pleasurable as well as enticing. The sound made my pet squirm a bit. But being a sadist, I thoroughly enjoyed watching her. Lol. This will definitely remain a staple in our toy bag.

I am looking to figure out some methods of administering an enama to my sub. We have discussed the facets of this kind of play and we both find it erotic and suitable for our play. Ive read many articles and watched some videos (not porn) on how to give it, but I'm wondering about a couple...

I am the proud Dom of a new violet wand. My toy surprised me with this new toy. And as I am very persistent on safety.... I was wondering if there's any advice on how to go about using this new found pleasure/pain device best. I've watched videos on usage but find this forum more useful than...

Nice call on the exfoliating gloves. Get a little rough touch in there. She'll never expect that.

I just came across this older thread, and felt it important to comment for some of the newer people experiencing BDSM as I am. There is more to a submissive woman than just the outer interpretation. What I mean is there's more to it than what someone front the outside can fathom. I have learned...

I would also like to add that being able to share something so personal with someone is not only erotic, but romantic. As I'm sure most all of us have felt some sort of repression from choosing this lifestyle. I know I have. And it's opened doors for me to explore myself deeper which brings out...

I find it the ultimate in romance. Simply because you have to know your partner thoroughly. At least I do. I'm very capable of reading body language and breathing. And of course there's the aftercare. With vanilla sex you get (what's basically known as) cuddling. To me there's a HUGE difference...

I have heard you and others talk about that before (in other posts). I had forgotten about that one. Is it somethig you use for full body sensation or jet on sensitive areas? Ie... Nipples, clit, neck line. The sound might draw her mind (if blindfolded) to believe I'm going to use some other toy...

I'm currently working on improving my "goodie bag" and add some new pain/pleasure devices. I have the "norm" toys already but I'm looking for something a little more unconventional. Like instead of a wartenburg wheel, maybe using a carpet seamroler. More coverage and a bigger handle. I've read...