Recent content by Savelle

Not to put too fine a point to this but are there ever any problems with Doms having trouble drawing lines for themselves knowing that a sub does have the final say? Or maybe that life puts in two cents more then it should... In my relationship the D/s aspect is more casual; our lives don't...

It sounds to me like she's internalizing a lot of the pain your providing her with already. If I adopt the idea that she does enjoy pain, it makes me wonder if maybe in your relationship your sadism is greater then her masochistic needs/desires. Another theory is maybe she feels you are out of...

Needle play? or Nettles (not your common household item but, effective)? Endurance play- maintain a crouched position w/ clothes pins attached to your thighs, balls etc. anchored to the floor and keep the rope tight until they are ripped off from your own efforts? I would go as far as to say...

Had a subscription to The Training of O and the more I watched the less I felt it was for me. The majority of the girls they brought on only had the slightest clue what submission meant and perhaps even less of a clue of how to relinquish control to their trainer: Mind, this was before they had...

The thread itself got me curious as to different experiences others have had relating to bondage. Your post L8NightQ on the varies ways to secure a breast for that tight swollen increased sensitivity just had me ponder if there were any other ideas I've never stumbled across to try.

Bondage: none specific What are some of the experiences you have had with different ties?

My suggestion is to first take the experience out of the bedroom and onto your computer through any of the various instant messenger applications freely available online and try role playing. If she enjoyed the experience like you said she did then chances are she either has had similar...

At just shy of 6' and thin as a rail, decently groomed and dressed in slacks or jeans and button down shirts most days I imagine I seem far from the type. More often my sexual preference comes into question rather then my sexual interests and when it does I always reply "bondage".

I agree Sebastian; this is a list which fits my personality. Its written in an introduction style- this is how I view a sub and if it is not the view a sub has for herself or wants for herself in a BDSM relationship the foundation is there for discussion of possible alterations (Nothing is...

Quick afterthought, the rights and expectations I've come up for a submissive should be included w/ this initial post to give the rest of you an idea of how I've composed and organized my thoughts. A sub’s expectations: I expect you to respect me as a person and understand that my submission...

Hello! I'm new to smplace and the forums so I thought I'd kick off my introduction with a bang and really put to heart a question that's racked my brain for a fair amount of time. Over the years I've read many articles, posts and the like that all prepare a submissive. Numerous tips on...