Recent content by Ruelee

Its been longer than a week for me, though I couldn't say how long exactly it's been since I last actually talked with him, no matter how briefly. He knows, or at least should know I'm here, since I've sent mails from time to time - not a massive amount of them of course. Since my idea of being...

The basic situation is, I haven't heard from my partner for some time now. I know nothing's happened to him, because there's still the odd post on social sites from him. The last I did hear, he was hitting a busy time. I'm ridiculously patient, so this has gone on for some time now. I'm not...

Alright. I concede I may have been somewhat inaccurate on that score, but I felt he at least deserved a mention.

I figure I should chip in a little too. A few more viewpoints can't hurt, right? BDSM, the way I see it is a lifestyle of choices. You choose to either let someone dominate you, or to dominate another, choose to allow things between you that others would see as objectionable, and so on...

I agree there, a plug would be better, but still be careful with it. I've found that for long-term use, putting some talc over it tends to help, especially if you're using a water-based lube

You know, I wonder what things might be like if it was 10% of the populace that *wasn't* into BDSM...

For the times when I'm submissive, it's the idea that I have to obey, or I run the risk of my Master picking out a punishment. Whether just not to masturbate for a time, or to do something even more humiliating. I usually don't like those, because he knows exactly what I don't like - then it's a...

And never forget that lube is always good. Don't be afraid to use it. If it's discomforting at first, then start small and work up slowly. Don't try to take it too quick, go for as much as you think you can take, and then let yourself get used to it. It worked for me, since then I've been able...

I've been through a customs check with a plug once before. Depending on what it's made from, you might get just a few odd looks, or maybe nothing at all. Mine for example is actually a glass one, which normally goes through without a second glance. Only once did it every actually cause a stir...

I tend to capitalize Dom or Master only when talking about my own, otherwise I stick to proper grammatical capitalizations. If there is such a thing.

Actually, it's fairly simple - at least for now, as it only started recently. It's pretty much the same as a normal - if there is such a thing - Master/slave relationship, except I know full well that the chances of anything sexual with Master are remote. It means I'm left to my own ends to do...

Not so, I say again. Mostly because I'm in that very position for now I'll grant that sex isn't likely to be high on the list - but I hadn't really counted on it being there. Call me strange, but knowing that, I'm more interested in the serving part this time round.

You'll, probably have better luck posting in the personals area, if not looking through to see if there's anyone there that suits you.

I wouldn't say it's an impossibility - anything is possible in some way or another, and I can see this happening. But I wouldn't chase it to the point of excluding other opportunities when they come knocking though. Keep yourself open for other ideas and such as they come.

Honesty being the best policy again. I guess I should have thought of that. Thanks everyone. I feel at least more certain of where I stand now.