Recent content by rose4Mistress

My Mistress has dealt with way too much death lately. A friend of hers died suddenly in March, her aunt died in June, and her grandma died last month. She has never dealt with death before now, and her grief process for each loss has been vastly different. The death of her grandma has been...

Thanks, Infinia That is very helpful, thank you. My Mistress and I talked it over a bit yesterday, and it sounds like we have pretty much the same goals. It should be fun, and fulfilling, to incorporate her ideas with mine, and create a system that works for both of us. I'm excited! :D

How did you begin? How did the first few months go? Were you already with your partner, and discovered D/s together? Or did you meet each other knowing you wanted a Master/Mistress/sub/slave? How did you negotiate what areas of your life or your sub's life were controlled? How do you...

That makes a TON of sense. Definitely going to do that! :) Unioingirl, I like that, too. Thanks so much!

Thanks so much, Sebastian. I'm having a hard time even using the safe word. I read somewhere about using stoplight colors when trying something new, so that she knows where my limits are, and we're planning to try that, too. We've talked about having some sort of constant communication...

My wife and I have been together a little over a year. We recently discovered we both enjoy BDSM, and have really similar fantasies (her from a domme/switch perspective, and me from a sub perspective). We are both domestic violence and sexual assault survivors, so the going has been a tad...