Recent content by Roland

Thank you both and I appreciate the kind words.

My wife and I have explored D/s for a few months now and it has generated some positive and negative things within our relationship. We have both agreed to table it for now and possibly pursue it again in the future. I probably won't be posting or lurking here during this time period. Thanks...

Message received and enjoyed.

Here is the all important noob section: http://www.smplace.com/forum/23598-newcomers-faq-read-before-posting.html I would start there and then ask us anything else after reading it if you need to.

LOL...ok strike Cosmo from the record unless you want to learn what not to do. My wife does like Redbook, though and it has given her some good ideas.

This is not a question I can answer, but I will say that if it feels good and brings you pleasure, then keep doing it. My guess is that you will lose more hair if it is getting pulled often, but most likely not enough to notice. The body is very good at shedding and replenishing hair.

My wife uses these and loves them for Kegels: http://www.babeland.com/Je-Joue-Ami/d/3002 I know it sounds cliche but give Redbook Magazine a try. Another fave for my wife. Cosmopolitan is catered to younger women but you may find some good info in there, too. Subscriptions are cheap.

There was a product called Aplrox-TD but it got killed by the FDA after it was shown to cause cancer in laboratory mice. The new topical cream out is Vitaros (do a Google search for it), and it has been approved in Canada...

Stanley nailed it with everything he said. Remember, we are about safe, sane and consensual. Flashing your pussy to a stranger in an alley is not safe or consensual.

If you want to learn about BDSM, check out the Newcomer's FAQ at: http://www.smplace.com/forum/23598-newcomers-faq-read-before-posting.html There is a ton of useful info in there as well as book suggestions. This particular book I know nothing about. It could be good, but the publisher...

What are you referring to? Do you have a link?

Have you tried a vibrator on your clit, for starters?

A year has passed with you doing this and he is still showing little to no interest, and in sex in general. It sounds like you are doing the right things from your end to let him know you have needs that need satisfying. There are a few possibilities for his reaction. 1. He is just not...

As for butt plugs in public, especially for beginners, this is the best one I have found: http://www.amazon.com/Fun-Factory-Bootie-Black-Quantity/dp/B00757ALDW/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1347109316&sr=8-1&keywords=bootie+plug See if you can find it cheaper someone else. I got it for half the cost...

Aside from the sadomasochist label which you ruled out, all of those other labels describe you based on what you wrote. I wouldn't get hung up on labels. Although the term Master implies that the sub is your slave, which is a deeper level of control than your standard D/s. It is hard to tell...