A whiffle gag might be a good investment. They are cheap to either make or buy. And you can find videos on youtube on how to make those as well as bone gags.
Gags are one of my favorite bondage accessories. If I could have one of every kind I would be a very happy woman. I like gagging and being gagged equally. One of the best parts about gags is making your own or just coming up with new ways to keep your partner silenced. My current collection...
My fiance and I switch roles a lot, though I am mostly the "dom" I will only be called Master while playing and Dear outside of play. Though I am female I have a lot of negative feelings about the words Mistress or Ma'am but to each his own. And I call him Slave, Naughty Boy, or by name. When we...