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    Bondage and It's Precautions.

    I take extreme exception to this. In the event of an emergency, don't fumble around trying to untie a knot, CUT IT LOOSE... NOW! 'Safety shears' aka 'EMT shears' can be had for under $10USD if you shop smart. There is no better way to quickly release your subject in a hurry. These...
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    The (dis)liking for bondage

    For some, the bondage is a release. They *want* to feel slutty and dirty, and the bondage frees them from being responsible for what happens.
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    My sub doesn't like body hair

    I shave the shaft and balls, and trim the rest so it's neat and tidy. It improves the odds that you'll get a blowjob. ;) Nobody likes flossing with pubic hair. If you've never done it before, use a quality double or triple safety razor or else you'll bleed like a stuck hog. Once you get it...
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    blow jobs

    "Swallow it, or it's going in your eye!" If your spooge isn't tasty, then there's no 'disrespect' in spitting. Coffee and cigarettes can make it especially bitter, while pineapple, mango, papaya and related fruits can sweeten it up noticeably (hint: go heavy on the pineapple.) Vegetables...
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    What turned you onto BDSM?

    My first long-term girlfriend in high school tuned me in and turned me on. Her parents were into it, and she'd found their stash of magazines and 16mm film reels, piquing her interest. This was back in the '70s when it was decidedly underground. Waaayyyy back then, it was called either B&D or...
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    Behind the Username

    <Laffs> mine is a contraction, as some people are offended at the 'Rope' that I normally begin it with. consensual bondage is for wussies...
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    Self bondage ideas

    I'll add a firm AGREE with sebastian... having accidentally done a full hog-tie on myself once when I left the safety shears up on the counter. Oops. It took me a over a half-hour to work myself loose, and my hands were numb by the time I'd finished getting one free. I've seen lots of...
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    Do you think you "look" like a person that is into BDSM?

    Laffs... I dress vanilla and seem to fool most people. I'm a switch, more top-heavy than not. I've been doing this for a VERY long time, and it shows in my posture and motions. My normal stride is somewhere between a confident strut and a panther's glide... and for some reason it draws...
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    Spam control?

    I've been an admin on a few adult forums for a while... All of the above are true, to some point. Most of the spam comes from automated scripts run from server farms ALL over the world. It went nuclear about 18 months ago with the release of a Russian spam script that could break the...
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    What's your safe word?

    I've had this discussion... ENDLESS times. I always use RED because it's simple and is used at all of the dungeons. If you get cute and come up with a word that's hard to remember in the heat of the moment, then you've voided the whole idea of a safeword. When you've reached your limit...
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    Cat tail anal plug

    There's an artist that went by 'The Veterinarian' that had some nice illustrations of women in puppy play with tails, including a few theoretical DIY instructions. Here's most of his work (you have to hunt around to find all of it): http://www.aigando.com/Vet-toko-garo-e.html including...
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