Recent content by PrettyInInk

Hahahaha!! I thought so! Not that I want to read a million of these, that's one hell of a way to make an entrance... and us long distance people jealous :D

Silly-- the problem is kind of hard for me to voice, so I see where you're confused. I am! It's not a lack of romance, really. We act like best friends, or even like we're dating, and he's really considerate & caring & lot of fun to be around outside of all of this. We've talked about it, but...

Hi again all you awesome advice givers :) I think I need a little advice from experienced subs and maybe just a little place to think some things through/whine. I had no idea how much thought and brain power was going to go into unlocking such a fantastic and fun part of my life. My brain is...

I've read and heard many arguments against female submission, porn, and all sorts of other fantastic, sexy things that fall under that "feminism" or "intelligence" category. Truth be told, what you do inside your own head or bedroom has nothing to do with feminism, intelligence, or anything else...

Yay yay YAY!! Had an awesome last visit, and fiiiinally ( a little then, but more so since I've been back, via text) got into some serious talking & he's opening up about interests & relaxing a bit because I'm not freaking out or saying things are too much... So skittish, this guy! So thank you...

Haha I asked a question kind of like this and got some advice that worked for me, at least. It went something like this: "just about every dom wants you to beg for something." Excited for you, subbot :) I'm just getting started too!

Yea... I get a fair amount of being shoved, yanked, picked up and put places.... I like a verbal command quite a bit, but I love the non-verbal even better :)

Well, I have a weird living situation where I actually live at work... Long story :( It makes life difficult. I think our town's population is about that, though 300 might even be pushing it... And the nearest "town" is about 40 minutes, and it's pretty small itself! So yup-- definitely rural. I...

Silly-- I'm with you. I wouldn't say it's a lack of communication (because we definitely do); it's more of a lack of patience on my part... Silly, impatient, excited, selfish me... Heehee. Lucky you with your master... This guy and I are in the same boat, only I have the unfortunate circumstance...

Hey, and thanks to you both. I understand (and kinda knew) most of what you were both saying, and we have been talking about limits, fantasies, etc... I understand that communication is key here, and I may be pushing it too much even... That said, I think it was important for me to hear...

A lil follow up... my number 1 fantasy is the idea of being used, like a toy... I would say slave, but I'm not sure those two things are the same. Does anyone have any suggestions of how to subtly hint that?

Hi everyone! So, I'm a a newb to the forums and to BDSM, I guess:rolleyes: I've been super sexual and super submissive since I was pretty ridiculously young, but I've been far to submissive and shy to ever really bring it up. I did have a LTR in which we dabbled with fantasies, but I just...

Just joined, so I thought I'd say hi :) Hi!