Recent content by Phoray

There is no fun anymore *laugh* I know you speak of safety but this is just a kill joy

That's exactly what I was thinking ^^ I'm glad I wasn't totally off base then. There is a lot of slang on here that fires up he google engine on my side! and SLP- I knew you meant it with the best of intentions because you put a little smiley face at the end of your message. Paired with...

http://fetlife.com/ I admire your passion for perfection, if nothing else. Good luck with your search

Emotionally unhealthy is when it interferes with normal day to day activities of living. it could be as simple as you stating that your needs aren't being met and seeing if the extra ten minutes it takes to reassure you after a session is enough to salve the raw feeling. BDSM aside- if you...

definition Can we feel out a better definition of -switch- perhaps? Off the bat, I just thought it meant that you could both with no discomfort i.e. depending on how you felt that day, you could be one or the other easily. I've heard subs that were put in positions of domination who always...

I wasn't trying it imply they were amazing- they're mostly a backache. I was just surprised that you seemed surprised- I wasn't boasting. I'm willing to be submissive to find out if that is indeed my forte. but I really want to try both sides of it before settling down to just one. I have no...

there we go- I was so sure I had read, perhaps, that Obedient Little Puppy was told by her dom to pinch him and he/she is definitely a submissive. Things like that and my fantasies that more often not revolve around a powerful position but also of being used (completely separate fantasies)...

From what I've read, subs are in more control than the doms and there is supposed to be a trust relationship forged in some way before you even do said things with your partner. So that you trust your dom not to hurt you- you've discussed ideas , shared some fantasies and they learn to know...

I've looked at and purchased a very high quality one (staninless steel ribbing not bone, but it laces up) for around 100 bucks at an Anime Convention- Steam Punk has gotten very popular recently, and Victorian style clothing is back in style in a major way.

Very scary- I wouldn't risk quality of life for it. And have plenty of other fetishes to explore that wouldn't have those risks. ^_^ perhaps I won't explore that one after all.

is it really that amazing? ^_^;

I almost want to hit vegas just to do what that lady did. well, that and have a threesome haha

haha if I had a waist like hers, mine would pop out just as nicely. ^^ 36 F cup.

I did read it this morning but after you said that I performed another read through. 1) Control- as I go about public life, I am most definitely not submissive. Last meal I had with my boyfriend, I ordered his food for him. I was frustrated he didn't give me more control over the financial...

was looking for that one and found this one http://www.metacafe.com/watch/81859/las_vegas/ which was pretty amusing as well. Leather fetish anyone?