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    ok so im about to take the first step...

    Haha, big geek actually :) Thanks for all the commentary guys... believe it or not it has actually helped me alot... I am so angry at him but I think with time that will go... I think I've just been niave in all of this... I'm sure with time I will meet new people and the pain will go :(...
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    ok so im about to take the first step...

    Yes he did have a girlfriend behind my back and I'm so thankful for all your responses... I couldn't believe it... I was heartbroken when he told me... and I wish I could contact the new GF but I don't think that would make me feel better... merely just make me feel crappier for ruining 2 lives...
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    Australia

    I'm from Melbourne :D
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    ok so im about to take the first step...

    Just to update this, my dom is an asshole. I am so angry at him right now, I finally submit to him and enter into this lifestyle and not only am I never allowed to see him again, but he informs me he has a girlfriend and even though he loves me, wants to be with her... like what the fuck... I...
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    What's your favorite?

    I enjoy older men too... My dom, who recently broke my heart, was 7 years older than me.. im 23 and he was 30.. and it was great while it lasted... I think dominance/submissiveness can come in all ages, however it's those that embrace being a sub/dom who get the most enjoyment out of it and...
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    ok so im about to take the first step...

    OH MY GOD.... I just got home from seeing my dom... and Oh My God.. It was the most rewarding thing I've probably done... I'm covered in red marks from shoulders to thighs and feel like I'm floating on clouds... I've been completely used and it's fantastic... Ohhh I can't even express the joy I...
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    I've messed up and would like some help

    Hmmm, try the personals :) I'm sure a willing Dom will punish you
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    Anal sex- Why??

    I am terrified too!! I love reading anal play stories, but it is the one I am most hesitant to actually try... and I know it's not a physical thing, because I'm sure with time and lube, it will all work.. it's the mental thing of having something in my ass... If you get around it, please tell...
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    What got YOU into BDSM?

    hmmm I'm similar to all of your guys, but different I guess... I started my sexual experiences by reading (Yes I'm a book nerd) and most of it was either abusive sex or rough sex etc... I ate it up like there was no tomorrow (We're talking 2-3 hour masturbation sessions here while reading)...
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    ok so im about to take the first step...

    Thanks guys, believe it or not the lack of specifics has actually helped!! I'm really excited!!! hehe
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    ok so im about to take the first step...

    So as the title suggests I'm about to take my first "official" step into being a sub... I've found a guy who is into BDSM (Yes I know there are thousands out there and finding one isn't exactly groundbreaking) and into me. Now I haven't felt comfortable letting this side of me show to many...
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    New cuffs yippie

    Thanks for the response, however it appears that would make a rather large smell.. is there any other non smelly ways?
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    New cuffs yippie

    Hi guys My new leather cuffs arrived in the mail today an they are positively enticing!!! My question is, as they are new they are quite stiff and I personally do not want to hurt myself by pulling against them... Does anyone have any suggestions on how to soften them so they are a...
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    What next?

    Lirotica.com also has a nice selection
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    Behind the Username

    Noobsubbot: I'm a Noob to this, I think I'm a Sub (or a switch?) and Noobsaibot (Mortal Kombat Player) so put it all together and you get Noobsubbot :D
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