Recent content by Lykos

A slight burning is not unusual, I get it every now and then when I'm out of practice. It should fade with time and as you guys try it more it will become more pleasurable, but DO NOT ignore pain. Pain is a sign that your body is being harmed, that is ok in normal BDSM play but in anal play it...

I'm not exactly an expert on this kind of thing byt I have trid it occasionally and run into the same problems. But don't panic, someone will be along soon who knows bookoo more about this than I do. My only suggestion is to tell her to do something and then let her tell you something. Switch...

Going to my first college party Saturday! I got invited by my best friend and she told me the whole fraternity is doing a decades thing. I'm going 50s greaser. Anyone dig?

It's ok, we all have our kinks. Or ex kinks. And they totally would be saying that. They would be like, "WTF, were over here!"

Yep! My girl's great about cumming fast and often, but she can also hold it in for us to finish at the same time. When she does that it drives me crazy because she gets very fierce when she has to hold it. I love it! Last weekend we were experimenting with anal play (I only get to see her...

sebastion: I don't think he is thinking you are an uber-dom but, if I may say, you are a very nice person to talk to and very knowledgable and totally proffesional. The combonation makes you a grat person for a newcomer to BDSM to talk to. J&B33: Totally fun being out here, can't wait for my...

Yeah I'm a few hours drive from you, out east near the Louisiana border. Same boat as you though, at school although admittedly you are much further from your girl. Still I get lonely during the day when she's in school, I think I'm to dependant on her for human contact.

I hardly get to actually sleep with my gf but when we have she would always drift off on my chest still straddling me, I tend to wear her out (she orgasms multiple times before I'm even panting) so she passes out straight after sex even in the middle of the day. :(

Well I don't know anybody whose into this kind of stuff in my area so I have to make due. Still he was a bit of an asshole so I beat his ass. I love being a 6'5 210 pound sub. ;) Edit: Note, I did not beat him over this incedent, he was fucking around with one of my girl friends (not...

Yeah, got to watch wolves get it on for two hours for a grade. ;) Totally worth living in the backwoods of texas.

Yay, a fellow Texan! What part? Most likely nowhere near me. :( Oh well, pertaining to the thread. My girl has come close I now realize but I always stopped so she wouldn't pee. (silly me) I have the same spreader bar but mine hangs in my car. I love improv bondage.

Yes I know the legal ramificatios off such things, half my family are cops and the other half are lawyers, and I get to be the kinky wildlife biologist. YAY! :p She's also newer than I am in bdsm and I don't want her to rush into something and have guilt later over "hurting me"

Yeah but my options were limited, I'm pusuing a degree in Forest Wildlife Management and my future homes will most likely be in rural areas, guess I'll have to get used to being alone for a while. My fiance is only 17 to top it off so I refuse do do certain things with her until she is old...

18! I find it funny that there are so many people who can handle the content on here at such a young age, I showed my friend a story from this site as a joke (at least I told him it was a joke) he called me a freak (in much more colorful language) and gagged. Wanted to beat that boy with a...

Edit: On second thought, someone just on this forum who I can talk to would be nice, I'm just coming into BDSM and am trying to find my place as my girl's sub. Just a person to bounce ideas off of would be nice.