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Thank you!

Thanks! And I really am :) Never come back like me, huh? Yeah, I found it after I posted that :giggle:

And I did just that. I forgot about the thread and the site itself. I even thought the situation solved I guess. And in a way it was. Then. I don't truly remember what I was thinking then. Then the beast came out to play again or maybe I was just talking to a really really good friend, my...

that's what i told him, that we were going to need plenty of communication. he is proving to be a typical guy of his age (24) in the way that he doesn't communicate certain things well. of course i will continue to do my best on my end. do you mean like updates through this thread?

thank you to everyone who has replied and given advice! especially to sebastian! i have talked to my boyfriend :D he now understands that we need safe words and limitations, and so we will be using them. i told him there will be no other way. apparently, he feared/s that he has no control...

i don't think it's #1, he jokes with his parents and his mom's boyfriend kinda openly about sexual topics. and i doubt he has ever been to church. 2 and 3 sound more likely. he's all about being a gentleman. holding open doors and everything. for some reason it's been a lot easier to talk about...

that night was the 1st time he did anything "again" and therefore was part of the shock. i already knew that i was going to need safewords and limits (i've read fictional novels were the story/series involves quite a bit of bdsm). this is his first real relationship. the longest one for me...

i love the biting, and the choking i decided i like to a degree. with the biting, that night he bit in several places (all bites i enjoyed) then he did the non talking hiding his face bit for a few mins (i was thinking the night was over) and then so very fast and sudden he bit me really...

let me give you some background before i get to the problem. my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now. we have talked about bdsm somewhat. when i say talk about it somewhat i mean the topic comes up in a roundabout way. i can't get him to talk about it straight forward. but we do...

hiya! i'm new to the site and newish to bdsm. i came to this site hoping to find a few answers.