Yes he deff has the whole southern gentlemen thing going on!! I guess i just have to get some courage to talk to him, im just scared of rejection!! He doesnt even like me to give him oral, even though i beg him to let me all the time! I guess i should stop hinting towards things and jus flat out...
wow i think this poll is interesting and informing... i didnt really know what bdsm was until i was like 18... but i can always remember having fantasies that were not "normal", rape/torture/spanking/bondage... i awlays though there was something wrong with himi for having those thoughts... but...
thank you so much for your input, this really makes me feel alot better about my situation! I just have to be patient with him. I am very serious about this relationship, we have been together for over a year... but we're still young and have plenty of time to get freaky :)