Recent content by LordOfCups

Hello all, I am a relatively new Dom, and I have a 24/7 D/s relationship. (We are married and discovered BDSM after marriage) The issue is that my dear Cup cannot have visible bruises really anywhere due to modeling. She is a wonderful masochist and I am a true sadist, but this puts a bit...

An extensive period of anal stimulation before insertion should help. The finger is a great idea. Gradual entry is a given for initial play. Eventually after repeated play perhaps lube will not be absolutely necessary. One of my favorite scenes involved no lube at all, but that is not for...

I have used my hand as well as toys, but I cannot say that anything I have partaken in could be classified as "extreme". My slave loves it. I agree that you need to start slowly and work up to more agressive treatment. That allows the pain to build slowly in a wave of sensation. Very intense.

I have to say that I have been a dominant male for a long time, but as far as accepting a role as a Dom, that is a different story. I have always been attracted to strong and confident women, I never knew that it was because I desired their submission. I just recently entered my first D/s...

Feeling stiff or unnatural assuming a role does not mean that this is not a part of your personality. I am not the most experienced Dom here, but I can say that in the beginning I was very "awkward" at first. If however you in general find yourself gravitating toward a sub role, perhaps...

The original question was about posture training. Being fairly new to the lifestyle, I am wondering if that is training for good posture in general, or are we talking about certain positions here? I have found personally that I feel compelled to improve the posture of my dear cup. In this...