For a new sub it is imperative to have a safe word. You are not sure of your threshold or limitations.
Now as an experienced sub my Daddy and I have a safe word in place but it seen more as whining when used. He is reads my body language and is in full understanding of how much I can take...
I can ususally tell by just speaking to them. It takes a very strong person to submit me fully.
It is feeling inside you, do you get a errie feeling off a person or a calming effect. IMO i need that calming effect, for my Daddy will have to be calm and stern to ease me through our extreme...
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I am a sub with extreme daddy needs. Iam new tothe web scene but not to lifestyle. I am looking forward learning and joining the discussions of many subjects.