Recent content by Leilani

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    What's your safe word?

    Blueberry pancakes!
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    am i the youngest member?

    Hehe, I'm your age.
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    Behind the Username

    I wish I were as original as some people here. I always suffer from creative block when I register for these things.
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    BDSM without sex

    The two aren't the same, but they do tend to go hand in hand for me.
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    Puppy play

    Oh, I don't know about any specific community, but I was referring to people in general. Most "regular" couples I know would be willing to try some vaguely BDSM-ey things like spankings, but roleplaying as an animal, not so much. That makes it pretty uncommon in my eyes, and somewhat remarkable...
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    training advice needed :)

    Haha, the "Cum Brulee" thread springs to mind.
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    Punishment direly needed

    I think that, first and foremost, you should talk to her. I'm not exactly experienced with this type of thing, but I think that in any relationship, communication with your partner is key. Perhaps you were too strict for her current standards, and she simply wasn't able to train herself to...
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    Tattoos and piercings

    Aww, cool of you to share! It looks nice.
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    Have you ever heard the misconception about switches not being "true" BDSM-ers?

    I disagree a little, since people are differently neurologically and psychologically built up and pain thresholds may vary based on either, but we're basically on the same page here. In most cases, there won't be an enormous difference, although I do suggest that every domme who has at one point...
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    Tattoos and piercings

    That dragon's head sounds lovely, actually; I wouldn't mind seeing a picture of it if you ever choose to show us! I think tattoos can look beautiful on some people - I won't lie, I have a soft spot for certain uniquely tattooed musicians - but I've never seen one that would "feel right" and fit...
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    Puppy play

    I've never considered animal play of any sort, and to be honest, neither my boyfriend nor I would get anything out of it besides a new experience, but reading about what you girls engage in is fascinating and totally adorable nonetheless. It's always sweet to hear about people with uncommon...
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    Hot wax

    I've tried out pouring some wax from a regular candle on my leg and inner thigh out of curiosity, and that didn't feel too bad. It left bright pink marks, but after about a week or two, there was absolutely no trace of them any more, so I say go for it!
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    Tattoos and piercings

    I've got four piercings; the customary earring hole on each one of my earlobes, a tongue stud and a navel piercing. The tongue stud is in the middle of my tongue, not pushed front like with most people, so it isn't seen while I'm talking, and most people don't realise I've got one unless I tell...
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    Interests outside of BDSM?

    Well, I'm a student, so my main current interests ought to lie in utilising teenagehood to its best advantage via as many themed fancy dress parties and jello shots as I can find, but I'm actually quite shy, so I generally write and read up on subjects that fascinate me, such as philosophy...
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    What turned you onto BDSM?

    I don't think it's something I can pinpoint. I've always held a deep fascination for elements of BDSM, even while I was a little girl, and tended to incorporate subtle D/s power play and occasional punishment into my games with dolls, imaginary friends and the like. I also remember being taken...
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