Recent content by lasubbie101

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    Dom/sub signs?

    Wow I remember thinking of being tied up when I was very young, like 10ish I think because I still slept with my parents then! It was very hard for me to get up the courage to sleep by myself. Anyway I also remember playing with my Barbies the same way since very young. I started reading...
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    considering adding a 3rd to our bed

    Idk but my Sir and I are considering the same thing and would welcome any advise/input as well!
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    Tattoo's / Symbols?

    I would like to have some type of tattoo showing submissive for my Dom but it needs to be something that goes in the vanilla world would not understand. I really want away to show my husband's/Dom's ownership of me while at the same time not not making it obvious to my kids/family. If you have...
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    Tattoo's / Symbols?

    Does anyone have the correct Chinese or Japanese symbol for submissive? I have searched online a few times and there are so many different symbols and I am not sure which are correct, or if someone knoelws of a good website I could visit that may have this information? Thanks!
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    Frustrating vanilla husband.

    I have been going through the same issue as you and have posted previously. I can't remember if it was Roland or Sebastian who suggested writing in a journal and having your husband/Dom read it but I took hat advise and it helped tremendously. I actually started writing a couple of...
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    How to get Dom to read/research? (lasubbie)

    Thanks again everyone. Your suggestions have given me some reassurance. L8niteq-he just really dislike any type of reading but he is willing to listen to audio files or books -thank you Siri on his new iPhone- but I may be pushing him too much. I send him websites to listen to and specific...
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    How to get Dom to read/research? (lasubbie)

    Thanks everyone for the posts. In response to Roland... No he hasn't ever hurt me but I think my issue is it seems like I am more interested in pursuing this than him. For example if I want to play it seems like I am always the one to instigate, for lack of a better term, our play. Yet, it...
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    How to get Dom to read/research? (lasubbie)

    Please any advise needed. My sir is not interested in reading to learn more however I am an avid reader and I think it makes my hubbi (new Dom) insecure but how else are we to learn? I feel like I am domming when I suggest readings and the are not easily recieved. However Ike earlier posts I...
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    Hi, newbie full of questions!

    This is amazing! I am so glad I read all of your posts! My husband and my self are in exactly the same position! I have been so worried about seeming "pushy" asking him to read this or that. I highlighted the main points in Screw the Roses and he read most of that. I guess I am so into reading...
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