Recent content by l0v3ly

My sub loves being spat on. She especially likes it when I spit in her mouth and make her hold it in there and then swallow it. A wierd concept, but she gets a kick out of it so what the hell.

I'm hoping to get some insight from some of you more experienced dommes out there. Recently (about a month ago) I played with my sub in person for the first time in a long time (due to distance issues and being busy). I was really looking forward to it and had nearly everything planned out, but...

So none of you doms are ever able to play with a sub without falling for them? That doesn't seem truthful to me.

Right. I agree with you there. I must not be doing a good job in explaining what I mean. I'm not talking about having just a bond with my sub. I know that we need to get along and have a bond. I'm talking about keeping yourself from getting TOO attatched to your sub. I feel like unless you're...

It's perfectly normal. I'm the same way, only opposite of you (more submissive and quiet in real life, but the boss in the bedroom).

Like some other's have mentioned, wheither you are a dom or sub is not always that black and white. You may be a switch, where sometimes you prefer being the dom and other times prefer being the sub. That is pretty common. If you feel like you want to just stick to one, maybe give it a try from...

Anna well yes I understand that there has to be some sort of attatchment. I'm talking about something a little more intense than just the normal attatchment. Sebastian, it's a little bit of both. Definitely more the "don't want to risk falling in love with her, that you want to be able to...

I'd say my most unusual fetish is omorashi, or the fetish of watching women piss their pants or diapers.

Even though I'm a dom and this is something normally associated with subs, I love wearing diapers. I was into them way before I realized I was into BDSM. It kinda ties in with my extreme omorashi fetish. My sub likes wearing diapers too but is against using them unfortunately for me.

I was wondering if any of you more experience doms out there have any tips for preventing getting emotionally attatched to your sub or at least how to put any sort of attatchment to your sub behind you during play. I'm still fairly new to the scene, and that seems to be the biggest issue for me...

Set up a sort of beginning "ritual" that you must do every time you begin playing. I order of my sub that when we play she must immediately kneal and kiss my feet, and do it again as I'm leaving. And I noticed you called her your girlfriend, which is all true and fine, but consider calling...