Recent content by Knots

Shame when things don't work out, but it looks like breaking up was the right choice for you.

Is infuriating.

Because you're trying to imply Small is dissaproving of your fetish. She isn't. She is also a forum mod and this is an open forum in terms of being able to post; she has EVERY right to post, just like I, Sebastian or any other random name out of a hat does.

No, she didn't. Creepyness, desperation and bitchyness aren't appealing factors to most people. Maybe this has something to do with your limited success.

Regarding laziness; there's some rather..."fun" ways to punish laziness. Threatening to make them run round a field if they don't put enough effort into pleasing you is just the start? xd. Somehow can't imagine you doing that with a sub, Sebby. Just can't see you watching football xd...

The post made me chuckle if nothing else.

Well done. ...Also, dyslexia struck rather amusingly; I read "published" as "punished", was a bit confused when I first read the thread...xd

That's risky for anyone, not just submissives. If I got speaking to someone from the rough parts of my city, whether they were submissive or not it'd be dangerous for me to go round of their house to see them. Likewise it'd be dangerous for me to go to Australia to meet a "sub", who may actually...

It definitely isn't unheard of among experienced players.

I think at the moment, since you're new to domming, you should sort this out like a "regular" couple. Have a word with her and say that actually this isn't fair and is perhaps even upsetting.

I expect this is the reason why some people are less reluctanct/more willing respectively, but I don't personally think it tips the scales that way. Though I'm not certain, and I'm sure from the gay scene it probably looks quite different!

I mostly commented due to the Freud thing, to point out you'd expressed an idea which is about as relevant as saying the earth is flat, which considering was part of your direct reply to one of the questions which the person posed I think that's a perfectly justified part of this discussion...

You think so? I've always kind of observed more subby females than males. I don't mean to take this thread off topic, more hoping to give best possible advice.

Yes that is what Freud said. 100 years ago. Do female chauvinists not digust you? Just out of curiousity. And if you're a "feminist" (I hate this term; it generally equates to sexism from females, as oppose to displaying any interest in genderal equality; and genderal equality is...

Don't honestly think inexperienced kink and drink should be mixed. I'd refuse to do A LOT of stuff if I was "drunk". Even outside of kink, pissed sex is more often unsuccessful than successful. Personally don't take a sympathetic view on this.