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    submissive self doubt (or a blatant plea for someone to tell me I don't suck)

    The kissing frogs thing is an analogy I do try keep in mind. Because of the part of the world I live in I haven't found kinky dating sites particularly useful (there just don't seem to be that many people local to me using them, and those that do seem just to be looking for play, not...
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    submissive self doubt (or a blatant plea for someone to tell me I don't suck)

    Hee, yes you are perfectly right about not dating those particular people, but after a streak like that I do start to wonder whether its something I'm doing wrong... Don't even get me started on 50 shades. Thanks to that book, on online dating sites where I declare my interests I've been...
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    submissive self doubt (or a blatant plea for someone to tell me I don't suck)

    Thanks all for replying. You all made me feel better :) I do know I'm allowed to say no, but that doesnt stop my inner sub perfectionist from feeling I shouldn't ;), so thanks for the reassurance on that one. I'm not sure I quite agree about 'earning' submission. Trust is earned, I guess...
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    submissive self doubt (or a blatant plea for someone to tell me I don't suck)

    I am submissive, currently single, but ideally I'd like to have a long-term relationship with a dominant guy. So, I meet a guy, he's nice, laid back, he's looking for something long term, he's says he's a switch, but mostly dominant and doesn't think my lack of switchiness is a problem. We...
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