Recent content by kato

Thanks for making me laugh, guys! I will pass on the klingon analogy to my dearest dom friend who I was doing exactly that with a little while ago. Update on the interested and scared v just scared project: I recently went after a guy who kind of seemed both things at once, but basically ran...

Thanks!

Yes, if you want to have a good relationship with a woman, you generally have to learn mindreading. Or, she has to learn to overcome her social conditioning to never say what she wants. I think it is partly because of this same social conditioning that we don't see many women who are out as...

I have very limited control in my daily life, and I want the exact opposite of that!

There's a difference between being scared and being judgemental though. I have found myself in bed with doms before and it was scary indeed. Also I sometimes enjoy that males in general find me scary... I am trying to learn how to tell when they are scared plus interested vs just scared. I...

stuff we did when we were kids... The first time I had something like lesbian sex was with a friend when we were about 4. Then when I was 7, it happened again with a different friend. In both cases they inititated... bet they're married now though and forgot all about it.

Hi all Happy to have found a place to be myself. I'm hoping to meet some people here, just to talk and suchlike. I've read up quite a bit but I want some human interaction to help deal with the niggles in my brain. Anyone else needing similar, or who enjoys mentoring, please get in touch!

I'm also here looking to meet all kinds of people. It would be good to chat with some other novices and maybe some more experienced folks to get my head in gear before I go off looking for some guy who wants his ass whipping. I've not put my IMs here because you have to earn that privilege...