Recent content by kajmir

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    FWB, think I'm in love with my "master", advice please

    My three cents due to inflation: I personally let the Top/Dom I am with know that I am exclusive, it's a hard limit for me and I need the same from them. While it is a common enough practice, that does not mean you have to be ok with it, just like any other kink. You're allowed limitations...
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    inexperienced dom dating experienced sub long distance, advice?

    Matches: -Clitoris -Nipple -Thighs Slightly marking, will go away. If too mild for your sub, maybe someone else might find the suggestion useful. A wooden handled/backed hair brush with firm brush bristle: Spankings Back/Butt (bristle side) Across the nipples (bristle side)...
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    Name calling/verbal humiliation

    -nods at smallest- What she said
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    a little help from my friends ...

    I say we put Seb on solving world hunger and world peace...should have it fixed by Friday. But I've used Seb's example myself and find it holds true...it's either a lie or more often then not an honest ignorance.
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    Odd newbie question

    I didn't mean to imply others can't...I'm just saying me!
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    Hard limits

    Yeah tribute...even blackmoney...know some subs love that... For me nothing fiancial.
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    Name calling/verbal humiliation

    -relieved-
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    Freaked him out: (

    Or you could make a joke and hug him.. "Hey look at that...a second virginity gone!" "I was sure I lost that in the 90's" "You realize we have to marry with my innocence on your sheets" "Doesn't this happen on the wedding night usually??" "HOLY HELL it grows back??" "Red cum...I'll start a trend
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    Freaked him out: (

    Have him read this thread. If he's smart, he'll know how concerned you are FOR HIM and how LITTLE he hurt you. He'll also learn it's not uncommon. Just in cybering, I prolly bleed every 3rd time. And it's ME doing it...
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    Questions About BDSM and Marriage

    It was painful. Tried so terrible hard not to bruise his ego...but good muffins man...he can handle a CFO position in a major company but can't handle the most vanilla of vanilla suggestions or even pleas. It was odd, he was very confident in other aspects, an achiever..but nail him with "I'd...
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    Hard limits

    Money, sending....I think most would agree but don't think of it.. Like um...gifting, contributions...forget the other wording.. Pretty close to a hard limit for me to ask for it also....I cringe at the thought.. (those extremely rare times I go domme) The pro's need not be upset...it's your...
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    Name calling/verbal humiliation

    Thinks of everything she would personally hate and despise: Titless Fat Fuck (cringe, swallow, apologies profusely to forum) Nigga Giant Hairy Ass Wonder Bushy cock-sucking whore Jungle monkey lard ass (AGAIN sorry!) (throw *covered* razors at her) (have her post her bush on some forum) (have...
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    Odd newbie question

    I'd be offended for being punished over a natural part of nature... I like fair punishment...like I actually did something wrong... And thank-you smallest.
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    Chat (beta)

    and I am sorry to say I got wrapped up in job hunting...I'll try harder.
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    Questions About BDSM and Marriage

    The only thing I'll ad is: It's your life...It's a shame they find it disagreeable...however it's not reasonable to expect anyone to live their life for other's views and morals... I also agree with those above...it's nice to say you want to wait...so the wedding night comes about and you both...
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