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    Can't cum

    I always thought I couldn't cum vaginally but my current partner changed that. We had a dildo that does feel better than usual for some reason We were having a bit of online fun, he got me pretty worked up and begging to cum, told me I only could if I really pounded myself with the toy for 5 min...
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    First BDSM Experience?

    Psykhe - totaly. The guy I am with just now was very respectful talking to me, it was more talking about more general fantasies and how kink stuff works - it was for him as well trying to find out if our ideas match up rather than just jumping right in to cyber sex type stuff I totally agree and...
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    Hi everyone!

    Wellcome :) Have you spoke to your girlfriend about all this? Its great to be the kind of person who just gets up and gets things done - but just presenting someone with a collar is very very unlikely to end well The stickies have some great advice on how to progress Put simply I would say you...
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    First BDSM Experience?

    I will share my story - but dont let it put you off :) I guess I was always 'kinky' although I never felt the need to lable it and none of the guys I have been with were complaining :D But I had been single for a while so decided to try online dating Met a guy, we talked online every day for...
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    3 steps forward, 10 back :(

    Oh dear We all make mistakes, and by the sounds of things this seems just like a mistake - too fast for both of you Easily done I know it may sound daft but in some ways it might be a good thing that your kinky side has ran back into its shell - it means now you are both starting at the same...
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    Can some poeple just not wear chastity devices?

    You get ones where the ring is hinged, then the cage slips on and they are all locked together
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    How to overpower

    Ok so Im a switch One thing myself and my partner both like from both sides is to be surprised, overpowered then forced into tight bondage I have tried it a few times as a sub and really love properly fighting against it and feeling him overpower me But he is stronger than me so for me to...
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    Bored and needing to work on myself...

    Have you spoke to him and said you don't like the pain? I am guessing yes when he says that about its likely what happened when you were drugged Even as a sub you do not have to do things that really don't work for you It dosent have to be about pain at all. I don't do pain So tell him that's a...
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    relief without enjoying it

    How about a ruined orgasm? You get just to the point of no return then hands off If you time it right you get no pleasurable squirts just frustraiting dribble that I bet she would love to watch
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    How did you get into bdsm?

    glasgow-sub - from a a Glasgow girl :) I am still very much learning as well but one thing I am learning the most is dont rush What I am finding really helpful is talking to people online, possibly meeting them in real life too but not rushing things and making FRIENDS I have found several...
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    Got invited to a fetish show, don't know what to wear.

    Nice fotos :) I think a lot of these events make their rules sound strict to make people make an effort and really think about it I think you both looked really cute and getting dressed up and having to think about it is 1/2 the fun (and my x has a lovely leather kilt so they deff can be...
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    How did you get into bdsm?

    Well to be honest being in the Goth scene I was always about people in the BDSM scene but I thought it was all about whips and things I didnt think I had any experience in BDSM - even when I was in a pet shop with my partner trying on dog collars I didnt think that had anything to do with BDSM...
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    Extreme Breath-Play Question

    Well said RR I just wanted to add Once someone is not breathing/heart stopped time is a critical factor The brain is now dying So having your wicked way with her at this point before trying to revive her would seriously increase the chances that you can't bring her back or if you do she has some...
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    How to cope with orgasm denial?

    Yes I didnt even see the fact it was a CB model till later. I am pretty sure my guy had it on for a week with no problems, he was quite, ermm skinny but he said the only 'problem' was when he got a little excited and the head king of swelled out of the bars at the bottom, when that rubbed...
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    How to cope with orgasm denial?

    Yup obviously they havent dont tests on ruined orgasms or prostate milking, belief amongst the chastity community that just so long as the fluid is being moved away from the prostate regularly then it SHOULD be OK But cancer isnt something I would mess around with The other things I have read...
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