Recent content by Interesdom

Since you are already collared, I suggest that your owner should be the one to instruct you in what he wants from you, how, when and in what manner. To understand the why and which of slavery, or to have help in general demeanour, you should only consider having an experienced slave or...

Are you looking for online role-play or real-time control? If real-time, whereabouts are you? If you are in England, I might be interested if you are genuinely wanting to be taught how to be enough woman for a dominant man to want to keep you.

If you spend the time reading various Internet forums, or go to munches and talk with real people, you will find many women who gave up their submissive side at some point, sublimated themselves in the name of "being normal" or accepting what feminism, instead of female liberation, says they...

Yes, I'd say you're a pretty useless piece of property to consider yourself owned by someone who is too darn lazy to learn how to dominate a girl himself! If you feel like becoming less useless and actually becoming a useful, desirable piece of property for a master who will put you in the...

I find that age is not so important in being able to dominate, control and guide, although there are some generic differences. I'm now in my fifties. My last slave was only a few years younger than me; the girl before that (who never made it to be my slave) was about 25 years younger (I have a...

For some more ideas, have a look at the Wipipedia topic on Appellation. Since the Wipipedia is for all fetish and BDSM people to use and contribute, you can even add in your own favourite!

Always ask questions! Steph, I absolutely disagree with you here. A healthy M/s or even D/s relationship relies on complete and open communication. If you are going to be a slave, how can you hope to make a good selection of who to own you unless you first have a good understanding of...

Response from a non-sadistic dominant. I am a dominant, not a sadist. I have had submissive women, slave women and submissive slave women. I gave manumission to my last slave a few months back and currently live without one. Broadly, I would say it doesn't turn me on, as such. It is just...

What are you wanting to learn? You cannot learn to have dominant feelings and although you say here that you are a new dom, your profile says you are not sure. If you want to learn how to be a Top, then seeking a domme to top you - or even an experienced sub to guide you in topping her - is...

This isn't funny! It is deadly serious! Although DHMO is often called "the invisible killer", last winder in northern Europe it has been found that it can cause car windscreens to turn opaque and reduce visibility to zero! This is a very hazardous substance.

You don't know how lucky you are! In Britain, it has been found in every single stream, lake and reservoir. Even when the chemical is completely cleared from a pond, it seeps back in from the soil. The situation here is dire. Dihydrogen monoxide (known here simply as 'dihydro monoxide') runs...

Make it random - and don't enjoy it. It's a bit different for me when punishing my woman, because I'm not sadistic. That means that even a mild spanking can have huge effect, because the extent of my displeasure is obvious, and it is my unhappiness, my disappointment that carries more weight...

Help your wife I would think your wife will have quite a few fears just now and I suggest you address yourself to those. She may be fearing that you've gone off your head a little; she could be fearing for the longevity of your relationship; she might well have fears about not satisfying you...

There are plenty of married couples in the lifestyle. I think that it is more common for them to have married, then become involved in the lifestyle but there are still plenty who have done it the other way around.

I have always had submissive women in my life and that is not about to change. The nature and depth of the submission has varied and I prefer long-term relationships to anything fleeting, though sometimes one cannot be sure which will last and which will not. I am happy to own a slave but will...