Recent content by InnocentLooks

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    sumission or rape for me?

    I think that that is batshit crazy and, if you didn't ask for it to happen or enjoy it, incredibly wrong. It's most definitely abuse--mental and physical--whether you say no or not, however, it's not rape if you're of age and you didn't protest. It's a different kind of abuse, obviously, as he...
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    new here with strange question:)

    I'm not sure anyone knows? I know I don't. I would have automatically said the guy though, just because of his little advantage. I really haven't a clue, though.
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    Few questions about bondage and stuff.

    Awww, that sucks. I'd go straight for it if I were you--don't just leave it up to him, really push for it. He's probably just nervous. :) Let him know it's okay, it's what you want.
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    New sub needs help.

    This is all very true. BDSM crosses a lot of boundaries emotionally and physically that people won't normally cross, though, and the ambiguity of those situations can be confusing. I can understand not knowing what to feel/want or whatever. It's true though, they have to take a chance and...
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    New sub needs help.

    Uh, they'd already gotten angry and left. I didn't think there was anything wrong with their question, I was just pointing out how they rudely leave when they don't hear exactly what they want. And that it was a pattern. That's what the problem was, the original question was legit, and I try to...
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    Kidnapping

    Ahaha, I was about to suggest the same thing. Or just give her a heavy sleeping pill or sedative. You need a presciption, sure, but we all know those aren't that hard to get. You'd just have to check for allergies and such.
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    What is your fetish?

    True, but it doesn't matter. It's all very taboo. Not everyone is brave enough to risk the social humiliation it could come with. And secrets get out...
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    Hi.. 21, f, new here.. looking to discuss SM with a man on AIM tonight

    I'm not a guy, thank you very much. But whatever, I won't take it as an insult.
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    New sub needs help.

    Anyone else getting a bit tired of the standard, "You didn't say exactly what I wanted you to/reply immediately/agree with me entirely, I must be at the wrong place" reply? Is it supposed to be insulting? I mean, they're the ones so stupid they posted at the wrong forum, not us.
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    Humiliation

    The Story of O is a fantastic example and Desclos is a great writer, no rival to de Sade of course in the BDSM literature arena, but it's still very well done. De Sade isn't going to give you the same look into submission as Desclos though, his characters being rather different (more...
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    Quick introduction...

    Ahahaha. I'm starting to like you.
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    New to the forums, not to the lifestyle

    Well, welcome to the forum. Hope you like it. :)
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    New and I have a question

    Use concealer a shade lighter than you skin and liquid and powder foundation the colour of your skin, like you would get for your face. Put the concealer on first, which will lighten the redness, then liquid foundation, and then a layer of powder around the area to blend. And make a deal with...
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    Lokin 4 white slave

    "1. sum uf uhs lyk, no how to reed en stuff. and wii lyk good grammar n' thingz." Lol. Quoted for truth.
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    Hi.. 21, f, new here.. looking to discuss SM with a man on AIM tonight

    I think this site is very friendly to new members. She said herself she was stupid. If she's going to insult her own intelligence, why can't I? Maybe I honestly thought she wouldn't understand and wanted to help... Stargazer used a lot of big words. And I'm not making fun of her desires, I...
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