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    scared to open up

    Hello hotgirl, Well...good for you! =) You always have a choice to look at things from the bright side or just seeing all the problems ahead of oneself. You are actually quite lucky here. For example, you are not boiling with sexual frustration in a relationship with a man who does not...
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    scared to open up

    Hello Hotgirl; I understand this very well, BDSM is looked upon by many people, often narrow-minded, as something sick, twisted, insane etc. and in today's sociey with all of it's sexism, abuse and violence people who are not into it often also has problems with seeing the difference between...
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    Sub having inner conflicts?

    Thank you for all your answers. Yesterday, I sat her down and talked with her for a long time about what she thought herself about what had happened. We also talked about some basic bdsm-concepts, such as why to spank someone, use of safe words etc. We sorta went back to basics all over again...
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    Sub having inner conflicts?

    Thanks for your reply, We have all sorts of restraints but they don't really have anything to do with the problem i believe. I am mostly concerned about the "anger" she feels. Not the anger itself, since it's just an emotion and not dangerous in any way by itself. I am concerned with what the...
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    Sub having inner conflicts?

    Hello, This is my first post here so I will try to introduce myself and the reason to why I'm here. I have been into BDSM for about 6 years and never met anyone like my girlfriend. We met 2 months ago and the sex is better than anything I've experienced. We do not live 24/7, and our...
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