I find fisting pleasurable both to give and receive and I don't think that it has anything to do with domination, inherently. It can be about domination if you wish it to but at face value it's just a really sexy, good feeling thing to do. In my opinion anyway. :)
As for the nausea and...
No problem whatever. That site sucked me in and for a week I couldn't concentrate on anything other than sex laced with BDSM. In fact, it totally brought out the sub in me when before I read it I was feeling quite Dominant.
I never really thought about it in a sexual sense until recently. I knew that I liked being in control of men and I knew that I didn't mind if a girl was more controlling, in a relationship sense. But, I never extended these thoughts into the bedroom. When a girlfriend brought it up, it all made...
I know of one site. It's Willow and Tara from Buffy the Vampire Slayer but it's all BDSM stories. Let me know what you think about it.
http://www.uberwillowtara.com/kittenstories.htm
I disagree entirely that a man "should" be at the head of the household. Or that a woman should be for that matter. I feel that it is a personal choice whether one lives in a male or female dominated household. Now, of course, this only applies to heterosexuals of course, because same sex...
I personally love when Mistress puts on her overbust corset. I prefer over to under bust. She looks gorgeous and it has nothing to do with her being a dominatrix or anything...I just think everyone looks good in a corset. They just have this way of accentuating all the right parts.
Oh, and I...
I like licking Mistress when she's on her period. I find the taste of the blood very pleasant.
She does not like it as much, however and is hesitant to let me lick her and will not lick me nor would I want her to. For some reason I am only okay with doing it to her, not the other way around.
I made Mistress stop shaving and to trim instead. I prefer there to be a bit of hair on top. Mine is usually trimmed with the bikini zone as trimmed as possible without irritation.
Our new pet is completely waxed. She says that pussies should have hair and cunts should be bare because cunts are...
I would recommend that anyone who enjoys tying up or being tied up read that book just as a precaution to always have some sort of safety release mechanism. Even if it's a knife somewhere within reach...I'm paranoid about that kind of thing as well.
My Mistress doesn't squirt a lot...just enough pressure to wet a bit up my arm when I finger her but...so far it's the only way she can come. I like it, a lot. When I've finished her off I like to rub it all over my hands like a special Mistress moisturizer. :D So freakin' hot.
I don't think I'm capable of BEING a cold stern stereotypical type Domme. For me it's always "that's my good little girl/bitch/slut/(insert subs preferred title here)" And I always like to say "please" and "thank you". Although...I have heard that I'm a lot bossier than I realize so...idk. But...