Recent content by Her-sir

For the first offense or if it isn't a regular thing I would withhold her orgasm, cum in one of her least favorite places (she isn't crazy about holding cum in her mouth), or both.

Exactly Anyone else find the humor in this part? BDSM and social norm in the same sentence.

Thanks for the response, You touched on most of the things we have talked about. One thing we have set in place. It takes 2 yes' to proceed and a single no to stop. I forgot to mention our D/s relationship.I thought it would be kind of fun to have a second sub that I got just for her if that...

Thanks for the input. Anyone else? This isn't something we plan to rush into. IF this happens there are 2 hard rules. 1 Zero sexual contact between the 2nd woman and myself, In fact try for zero contact at all. 2 If the 2nd woman is married there will be no sharing of my wife, Period. It's...

We are planning to do something similar. She will get a heart shape lock on her left ribs. I will get a key on the inside of my left bicep. The "official" story is I have the key to her heart. Something like this.

I'll start by saying this is not a personals or wanted ad. A couple months ago I shared with her a fantasy I have had for a while that I wanted to see another woman eat her pussy. She has been kicking it around and it came up today & we've talked for hours about it. We are considering adding...

We continue to play during hers. I personally like it when she has it, Well like it might be a stretch. There I times I rush and cut a plan short and just get to fucking her. During her period is a good time for me to slow it down and work on my skills because I have all the time in the world if...

Glad you're feeling better. Looks like I need to remember to log out of the work computer. Sent from my super fancy phone thingy so plaese ecxuse the spelling errors. 

MrWolfgang. So heres how things went last night. I was very upfront with him and told him that I was so not in the mood for anything. I told him that it was not that I wanted to quit but I just was not feeling at all submissive, horny, the whole bit. He asked if I wanted the night off and I...

I think you pretty much covered it all. I'll add some if I can think of anything. Edit: The biggest thing for me is remaining calm and in control of the situation and if you say you'll do something you had better follow through or any credibility you have gained could be lost very quickly.

I have a question about sick days/days off from playing. The other day my sub and I were talking about her denying me sex and would I just take it from her. The whole no means yes thing. Then the next night she got sick. Real sick, not just "sick" to test if I would take what I wanted. That...

Overthinking it can kill an erection faster then you can say "was that one of the kids I heard". I'm at a stage where I tend to go in a general direction instead of a strict plan & it's working for us. He does need to know what is off limits. For Her slut,whore & the like is off limits but...

I refer to my sub as Her/She and her response to me is Yes, Sir Her-sir & Yes, Sir

IMO It's a perfectly reasonable request to have stuff that has only been used by the 2 of you since you have more than a casual relationship. My wife is my first & only sub but I would guess that all bets would be off if I tried to use a previously used set of cuffs/toy/anything on her. If she...

Her and I are fairly new but here are a couple of my rules for her. They might seem silly but they work for us. She is to sleep nude at all times. There are only a couple exceptions to that rule. 1 would be sick kids and the other would be during her period then it is one specific pair of...