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    New to the game. ideas needed

    True but what teenager wouldn't love to be on the track dangerous but fun, lol.
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    bf is sooo vanilla....

    You could also rent porn one night or watch it online as foreplay and "come across" some bdsm porn. Tell him that it really looks like fun and how much you want to do that see how he takes it, no risk really and he gets to see something your into.
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    new

    I am not sure what to think, but as long as they aren't physically harmful then I don't think it is a problem. It depends on what you feel about it and how your master does if it isn't hurting you. If you don't know much about it, maybe you should find out. There could be a lot of side...
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    Eye glasses

    How did we go from glasses being a fetish to library fines? Guys we are losing focus, you know when library fines are more interesting then bdsm there is a problem.
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    Alcohol during a scene

    I think the use of alcohol should not be placed above a persons safety. If a couple drinks loosens you up as a sub and makes a scene better for you it might be ok. I would however strongly advise against a dom using something that alters reaction and ability. A dom should remain lucid and in...
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    Eye contact

    I think you have tapped into some nice psychological play there and for now that is all I think, but I will edit and add more to this later.
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    Darkest fantasy -

    Thanks filfy
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    Suspension

    An engine hoist might be a good solution for you. It could be a problem if you want it in your living room or something, if you're looking to keep your personal life personal. Personally I would construct my own free standing unit. That way no drilling into the ceiling or walls. Use Angle...
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    Dress up play?

    Depends on the master, sometimes it is fine and if he is turned on by you serving you should be fine.
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    Darkest fantasy -

    Loa, I just thought I would throw in my two bits here. I am pretty new to this whole lifestyle. I have been in it less then five years. While I agree with you on some of what you say, I must disagree with you on some as well. It seems like you're saying that Dom and Sub shouldn't call...
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    Dress up play?

    Prissy, I would suggest shopping online, there are plenty of places you can find good bdsm stuff and it saves you the hassle of going out and getting it in person. I will admit you might have to get creative to get a fox costume like you want, but it would be a nice suprise for you master one...
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    Need advice from another slave, please.

    Slave without her Master, I get where your coming from, maybe you do need a little help. On the other hand maybe you just need some time and a little bit of focus on other things. I think you would be fine if you got a new master. One who you serve and love as much as you did this last guy...
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    Canadian Dom seeks Online Sub

    I have been a Dom for three and a half years. I am straight so if you're a man stop reading now, you're not going to interest me. I enjoy both online and real play and am interested in meeting new subs and slaves at this time. I like rough play, however as a dom I believe you don't damage...
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    Guy wants to get into touch with his dom side

    Ice and fire play tips, and good materials for sensation play, huh, ok then. Well here is one of my favorite ideas lately that fit into both. Get some red and blue glowsticks break them open so that you can get to the glow stick liquid inside, then tie your sub (in your case your gf so she can...
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    Where can I buy hot wax for temperature play?

    I would just buy a candle warmer or two, then get a couple large candles in those thick glass cases. You still need to be careful, it is extremely hot, but it is cheap, easy and reliable (sort of like a good sub) and you don't need to go out getting candle making kits or something crazy, I mean...
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