Recent content by ex-vanilla

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    I'm no longer allowed to ask questions

    Don't talk to him, please, just get rid of him.
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    PA and Anal

    We're not beginners, we've had anal hundreds of times, just not since I got pierced. Martello, I'll sport a rubber, mate.
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    PA and Anal

    Well, we've been having sex for about a week or so, maybe more. I don't feel much different, but she loves it, and basically went from saying "I don't know why anyone would do that," to "When are you getting another one?" I told her if we wait a while, I'll get an ampallang if she gets her...
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    Where do you go vanilla?

    We're certainly not 24/7 yet, and I don't think we ever will go that far. We're just starting to explore this, but the more we explore it, the more I realize we never actually were vanilla. We've only been with each other, so I had always thought our sex life was normal...
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    More Newbey Advice.

    I'm in a similar position, my wife and I are both new to this. I found the best thing to do from the start was set the boundaries I won't ever cross. I'm the sub mostly, so she knows she can do whatever the Hell she likes to me provided it stays within those boundaries. As to new ideas, we...
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    Really Needing Help

    Actually, it's fine now. :) I hadn't been drinking much because I hadn't wanted to pee much but I'm drinking loads and peeing loads now and it isn't sore. My piercer said the condoms were more for people who were having casual sex and as I am in a long term rel. it should be fine, but hey...
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    Really Needing Help

    So, on Tuesday I did something I have wanted to do for several years... I got a P.A. It hurt, a lot. I'm sensitive down there anyway, so we'll say that's why. It bled a lot, too, especially Tuesday night. Now there is no blood. I had sex on Thursday. It didn't last long, I couldn't...
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    push pins

    I'm going to echo puppy here. I had my nipple pro done, and cleaned it regularly. it oozed pus and swelled to three times the size and even after I had the hoop removed it took about 3 years to return to the proper size.
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    Don't wanna be vanilla

    Hi. I've been with my wife now for ten years, and we've had a fairly vanilla sex-life. Well, when I say vanilla, it's always sort of been right at the cusp of being kinky. Recently we have started exploring fetishes and fantasies. Well, my fetishes, my fantasies... I've owned up to...
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