Recent content by edjixxx

Medically, choking at climax enhances the feeling. In the late 90's, there were a rash of deaths in teens around my area from hanging, attempting the idea. But, that was breath play. The loss of blood flow to your head is a result of vein and/or artery constriction. This, however, involves...

@Moonlight: It was the Mennonite family whom 6 of 7 children died. I forget the name of the church, out of Kansas thought, Church of the Crazies, or something like that.

@Moonlight: Yes, arguing in that magnitude does negatively impact the relationship. What you are referring to as arguing, I call fighting, and the anger with each other is what I'm referring to as arguing. At any rate, yes, in our instance, what got us to end up getting help was when a loaded...

Original thread topic: I think age difference is something that may always bother you, considering your experience. It's something you should talk to him about, and he should be more sensitive about. @sebastian: My opinion, big city/little town thing, is rural area population follow a very...

.....at 19, my definition of 'gun's was "sex".......lol. submarie, I wouldn't go looking in a serious fashion, but more have fun. Sebastian has a good point of experience with relationship intricacies.

Congratulations on the new edition!!! My wife and I have 3. Anyways, I'd talk to him about how it's been awhile, and your REALLY ready to go crazy. Depending on how long it's been, I'd first check with the doctor, last thing you want to do is end up injured while you're healing. But as for the...

Thinmint, you're not bossing him on how to boss you. What you're referencing is "topping from the bottom." What you're doing is telling him what you enjoy and and what you don't, and setting limits for both what your willing to do and not do. Communication is VITAL with BDSM. You must be very...

Hi! Welcome! I trust you have read over the FAQ, as it contains many answers. First, you don't have to be shy around us. I think what you'll find is a ton of help. It sounds like you and your boyfriend are off to a good start, and you're in the right place, so let us know how we can be of...

Intermaster, I think the issue is she's having problems with noise rules because of her vocal expression of pleasure.

Anything that could restrict the airway would be an extreme concern, IMHO. Anything like a stuff gag that's cloth, or something that's loose, I could see a rare possibility, and I'll stress rare, and a small risk, of inhaling sharply and deeply. An errant cloth piece, or a string, could be...

Moonlight, it's an okay series, I've all but finished the series, few pages left. The author very diligently attempted to do her best. But, forewarned, it's obvious fiction. It's going to portray good and bad BDSM, and will play the sub "saves" the Dom, with a Cinderella-type story line. It's...

Well, if gags are ineffective, maybe trying something outside the box may help. A quick search of some online stores selling BDSM items exclusively shows some mouth gags that cover your mouth, with different ideas, like a ball gag, inflatable, penis gags for the mouth and so on. What if you...

Moonlight, lol, that's funny. I think all parents have had that "Oh crap" moment.

Subrama, I speak from personal experience when I made that post. I have very personal feelings regarding just "giving up" on a relationship. It's a personal feeling that because someone is different, or has problems, it's not right to give up right away. But, her next post cemented her attempts...

Well, having triedall your options, I'd have to say at this point, tell him to call you after he's gone through counseling, but until then, the relationship is over.