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    a little advice needed

    ah ok, it makes a little more sense now. i think you should say something like, "i think you might be upset about having seen the porn on my computer last week. i want you to know that even though sometimes i like watching porn, it's never going to be a replacement for you." say it when...
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    a little advice needed

    hm.. well, it sounds like something is going on that makes her fearful she is going to upset or lose you. it may be a rational fear, or an irrational one. not really sure what you can do about it in that case.
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    a little advice needed

    who is the dominant one in this relationship? is it you or her? regardless, it sounds like you need to show her a lot more affection.. not domination, just true affection that will show her you care and that you are happy to be with her. if she is the one always initiating the cute...
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    help me think of a punishment

    yeah, we have one of the male chastity devices. the problem is he takes it off whenever he wants because one of the parameters defined at the very beginning was that he would not wear it to work and he lives an hour away from me so he can't very well come over and ask me to take it off every...
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    help me think of a punishment

    i am bad at coming up with punishments. my sub masturbated after i specifically told him not to (only two days after i last gave him an orgasm!). for a punishment, i handcuffed his right hand behind his back for a few hours (till we had to go out) but this was very minor and he seemed merely...
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    BDSM Christmas gifts

    i gave my male sub thigh high fishnets and panties.
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    blow jobs

    my slave does not like blow jobs. he does not get into them and has never received one to "completion" due to his dislike of them. however, i like giving them. his feeling is such that he feels it would be putting me into a compromising position, leaving him in power. my feeling is that...
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    new mistress

    i would like some opinions on this, please. i started dating someone and then found out he is a submissive. since prying that information out of him (which i already suspected anyway), i have taken on the role of his mistress. i never pictured myself in this role-- prior to this, if i ever...
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