Recent content by drkangl87

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    Nipple piercings and pain play

    I really want to get my nipples pierced but i have a bit of an issue: i love having my nipples played with, pulled, bitten, pinched etc and i was told that if i get my nipples pierced that can't happen anymore is that true?
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    am i switch?

    This may sound like a dumb question but i was just curious i've noticed that when i'm with a guy i tend to be more submissive but when i'm with a female i tend to be more in control so does that make me a switch or is that just part of my personality?
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    very confused

    Okay, i don't really know how to explain this but i'm going to do the best i can so here goes: I was with someone and they had their hand around my neck choking me (not real hard) and at one point i...i didn't black out or anything but it was like physically i was there and i could feel...
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    A question of silence

    i agree. The only thing that i've had happen to me is that the pain i was feeling was so intense that i went quiet. I just couldn't talk or make any sound but i've never had pain caused to me and it didn't effect me in some way.
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    What is your fetish?

    i'm really into biting, choking, knife play, being spanked and slapped, being tied up and blindfolded. I don't know if anyone likes this but facial hair (mainly goatees) i love having Master rub his chin on various parts of my body.
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    Knife play

    PLD you have peaked my interest, i myself throughly enjoy knife play, what interests you more the actual marks the knife makes or just the sensation of the knife going across the skin?
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    not enjoying sex

    I have told him, many times i've expressed my desire to explore more. I don't hold anything back cause i know communication is key in all of this but communication is a two way street and i'm not getting any response back. I'm starting to wonder if i should try and find someone else who is...
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    not enjoying sex

    We mostly do pain play (hair pulling, spanking, slapping, biting, nails dug into my hips) that kind of thing. I have told him what i like and don't like and what i want to do. I don't get much response from him so like i've mentioned before i'm left guessing. I would like to do more bondage...
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    not enjoying sex

    At the request of a friend i'm posting this to get some insight on a situation: i've been noticing that during sex whenever my partner does BDSM the more i find myself becoming reserved and not enjoying it as much. To me it seems like more rough sex than actual BDSM, yes i know there are many...
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    BDSM vs. Making Love

    I'm like you RS, i like the Ferrari at times but there are times where i just want to drive the Volvo for awhile.
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    Need some advice!!

    yeah the guy i was with was really hesitant about doing that kind of thing and he was the one who initially asked me about it. I agree with L8nightQ take real slow and be patient and talk to him about i and seb is right maybe stimulating it by licking it or lightly taking your finger and gentle...
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    Relationships

    I was actually introduced to BDSM by my boyfriend. I had done some things before him but nothing like what we do and even then it's only the tip of the iceberg of what i've learned about BDSM.
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    Am I a masochist???

    Paredes: i understand how you feel when you say it makes you feel strong. i know exactly where you are coming from. I feel the same way when i cut but i admire you for being able to stop.
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    change in behavior

    okay here's a question concerning behavior, have any of you (Doms specifically) ever experienced that feeling where you just aren't feeling it whatever it is you're doing to your sub, like that "fire" i guess is gone and you don't know why but it's just not there? sorry if it seems like a...
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    change in behavior

    thanks guys, i appreciate it
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