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    Vanilla husband with no interest in BDSM

    Hi, I think you should consider the fact that he might feel really insecure. You guys have been together for a long time and I wouldn’t blame him if he feels like he has never been able to fully satisfy you and give you what you need. As for his missing sexual interest… I can only imagine...
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    How do I explain something I don’t understand?

    Thank you, Sebastian. I should point out that he is my boyfriend, not husband. I’m not sure how important that really is but it’s nice to get the facts straight right? :) I will try and talk to him again. Maybe I will be able to explain it better when things get back to normal. I have a...
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    Frustrating vanilla husband.

    Hi, I am new here and I might not have much experience with D/s relationships (I am getting closer but still have a long way to go), but in a lot of ways I find myself in a similar situation. I fully understand the frustrations and I’ll tell you how I tried to deal with this problem. My man is...
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    How do I explain something I don’t understand?

    First of all I’d like to say hi. After reading on here for a few months I decided to join you guys. I have known for years that I wasn’t vanilla but it took quite some time to figure out what I was. About a year ago I told my man (we’ve been together for about 9 years) that I was...
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