If I wasn't such a newbie this might/could be easy, but it does give me something to think about and see what I come up with. And yes, I'm looking forward to the replies myself.
Good link. And as a newbie D, I'd recommend doing LOTS of research and find a mentor.(which I myself is still trying to do) I will say that of all the sites I've been to, this one rocks and seems to have decent information.
As a newbie Dom and doing some research through forums/blogs and what not. It's like anything else on-line, it's too easy to be something you're not. Like all relationships you'll find good people and bad. I'd say take your time and not be in a hurry to find some one who is worth submitting...
My sub is self conscious about hers, but it's something I like very much about her.(and no, she's no BBW, actually pretty slim, just had some kids and has some age on her) But even when just checking out a woman in general it still catches my eye.