Recent content by dp272005

I think the confidence thing is definitely the case, especially with her having been involved in the lifestyle before we were together, but the general plan you are talking about makes perfect sense, and also the dead space or lag does tend to kill or at least dampen the mood. Great insight...

my wife is extremely important to me, my aversion to this has been that I am the type of person that feels the need to know absolutely everything I can about a subject before I actively participate or attempt it, but if my feeling is right, this is not one of those situations, it seems to be...

nicely put :) and no but I suppose it is there for a reason. anyhow I will read through it and edit my post with the questions left unanswered if any.

My wife and I have been married for 5 years, when we met she told me she was into bdsm and I don't think i understood near as much as I thought I did on the subject, she is a submissive and for the past few years we have been somewhat off and on about trying things, mainly I believe due to my...