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    Wanting to Dive In...But Don't Know How

    oh der, yeah.. my apologies... how did I get that u were? now who's the silly one? lol
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    What's your safe word?

    That got me a good chuckle too! How random is 'Periwinkle'?! I dont know how u didnt crack up at him Sebastian, I would have given the moment lol. "Uncle" must be an American thing. Down here most kids are raised to say "F*ck off!" or "Piss off"... had a three year old come into my store...
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    Wanting to Dive In...But Don't Know How

    lol not silly... just unsure and that's all good, especially with someone new... just be brave and confident. Know who you are and what you're about... a guy cant resist a confident woman... well, i cant anyhow lol
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    Wanting to Dive In...But Don't Know How

    lol SLP... but she is right, communication is essential to any relationship. Without it... well i am sure you know where it would lead. Besides, it sounds like he is ready to dominate, whether he knows about BDSM or not, so I dont think you would get a negative response. With me and my...
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    Your own load

    In my most horny moments I've thought about tasting my own load.. but then I chicken out lol. One day, I may retain the courage haha!
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    Christian homes

    Found this link to be an interesting read.... http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/gardenerchristianbdsm.htm Can't say I disagree with what is said in the interview although it does seem in some places this interviewee doesnt have a full grasp of the 'secular' BDSM relationship...
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    'Slider'....???

    I've been reading a lot lately about what/how people within the lifestyle (Dom/mes, Master/Mistress, and sub/slave) perceive a sub should be. There are some who could be classed as 'Puritans' who think a sub has to be a certain way - mainly pointing toward a slave mentality - and there are...
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    What is your gender and position?

    Male sub... so Ill hold the flag with Restrained as a pure sub. I don't know if I could ever Dom, I really have no inclination to. I love the feeling of being owned and dominated; the love and trust that comes with that.
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    Friendly Doms

    My Angel is a very caring and loving Domme and I love every moment I get with her. I've previously had the more cold Domme type but after meeting my Angel I could never go that way again. She makes me feel valued and appreciated as a person which just makes me want to serve and please more and...
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    How to Be a Good Domme

    For myself, if i were to ever try my hand at a Dom role, apart from communication I would probably start by doing the things that got me going as a sub. Now obviously the sub may not like all the things I did but it would be a good starting point as it's familiar ground and I know how to do it...
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    Slave Tasks

    My Angel is currently getting me to write her stories based on a specific theme that involve her and I. The tasks come at random and some have a time limit so I need to think clearly and precisely about the story and what her and I would do in the story. Writing isn't for everyone but I love it...
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    Pubic hair

    Had a talk to my Angel about this since my last post and has told me she will allow me to groom her next time woohoo! Oh the possibilities! But on the condition she then grooms me... Oh what fun!
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    When sub gets mad

    It's just like any other relationship. Communication is vital for growth and longevity... I haven't had to voice anything yet but I know because of the relationship my Mistress and I have that I can do so and be confident I will be heard and respected.
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    Submissive girlfriend

    Mrnjau. Firstly i want to applaud u on seeking more out in this rather than going "fuck no!". To me that shows u have strong feelings for ur girlfriend and that's awesome. As a sub myself I want to give u this advice: more than anything else be careful how u respond to her requests. As crazy as...
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    My wife is submissive while I am Vanilla to a degree

    Shadowmasta... What a horrible position to be in, my heart goes out to u mate. As a 'victim' of marital adultery myself I feel ur pain - and yes, your wife is having an affair, maybe not physical but definitely emotional and mental and they are worse. As a sub who has been unable to act on my...
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