Recent content by Demandred

My fiancé likes being verbally humiliated. She loves being called names. She has asked that her spankings be more humiliating. I'm a 'nice-guy' dom, I have adjusted and enjoy being a dom but I'm not so good with words. I can write music bu not lyrics ;p Thoughts? Thanks.

Thanks forthe advise. We're working out details together. Will keep you posted.

Thanks everyone. Great thoughts.

Thanks. I love the panties in her mouth thing. That's exactly the kind of thing I was looking for. I thought of a great way to explain: she wants tobe dominated and please me, but she is insolent as f--k. She wants me to train the insolence out of her. I'm just not sure how to do that.

Thanks Sebastian for the advice. First, the asphyxiation is only light pressure so she struggles a little, no more. No complete cut off of air, so maybe asphyxiation was the wrong word. It's at her request so I am very gentle. As far as the rest goes, I think we'llend up somewhere between the...

She even admits she needs training. I would say that 95% of punishment will occur in private. It's the training part i am unfamilure with. I'm looking for ideas on how to train her, since I've never done that before. Like situation a, she's being annoying on purpose to get a rise out of me...

Hi all, I'm new and really like what I've seen here. So here's the situation: My fiancé and I have been together for four years, I was vanilla when we met (she was not, into bdsm as far back as boyfriend #1, but nobody since him really being good at it) She's very much a sub and I've...