Recent content by decadentangel

i believe that people choose to be a dom or sub based on their own life experiences. i was married to an abuser for four years. i enjoyed doing as i was told, getting praise, and pleasing people; the whole sub lifestyle. being married to an abuser changed all that. i carry around the scars to...

i listen to the way people talk. i was surprised by one person and the other i knew he has some kink in him but i can't tell to what extent it's in him,lol.

one of my subs felt that way before i became her mistress. hang in there hun. long distance relationships are never easy, but they are doable like ms. 13 said. :)

thanks for the advice but i'm not really sure how i feel about the whole roleplaying thing. i never really saw the need for it. but if his feralness does get out of hand, i will take it under consideration. :) thanks again for being so helpful :)

malenko has fficially been collared by me and he seems to have taken to it. he does need training so i try to spend time with him everyday. i'm very excited to have my mate as a sub. it's an awesome thing. we went over basics last night, limits, safewords(just to please you sebastian, the safety...

i am treading very slowly. i collared him this morning. i've explained everything to him as fully as i can and he's picked a safeword so i know when he's uncomfortable. i have found that doming a male is very different from doming a female. of course the man i'm doming is my mate so i'm sure...

oh my sebastion! do get better hun! and i don't mind being stalked either lol :)

OK, just to clarify, you're a bi male, and you have a female sub and now a potential male sub? no hun i'm a female with a female sub and i would like my mate who is male to be my other sub. he's registered on here as malenko. we both have the same personality neither of us wants to be...

hey guys! las time i posted i was having issues with another dom. that's done and over and my sub and i are doing great. well my mate's sexual drive has increased greatly from the fact that i've taken on a pet. i spoke with him and told him that i'd really like to be his dom as well. he's had...

i love fisting! when i do it i feel pressure but not pain. it's weird but i love it and the orgasms are to die for!! i like pain during sex so it doesn't really bother me. i get a little sore every now and then but otherwise it's a whole lot of fun :) however there my be a difference between...

i have been reading around this forum quite abit. and i'm enjoying what i read from it. i've decided how i'm going to punish my sub when she misbehaves. it's so evil.....lol.

thats what i thought. i figured itwas all about being respectful. and no, the other dom never offered me anything in return so there was no even exchange. i just so happened to get a jerk who thought he could swoop in, take what he wanted and be done with it. rest assured guys, the situation is...

thanks so much for you input. i'd like to say that the issue has been dealt with without violence. now all i have to worry about is setting up another scenario and learning how to tie a good harness!!! :) happy playing everyone :)

so let you ask you this: are there any set rules for dom to dom interaction besides the obvious common sense ones? is there like a guide or a list or something to follow? i've never had to deal with a situation like this before so i'm kinda at a loss. do we have a code we follow, and if so is...

no this wasn't a gathering. this is someone my sub knew from jr. high and high school who is now into the life. for the moment, i've told my sub to ignore him and i am doing the same as well. i'm starting to think that i may have to meet this guy in person just to get my point across. if it...