Recent content by darknova42

http://www.mangahere.co/manga/nana_to_kaoru/ its an english translation of a japanese comic aka manga. Its basic bdsm. Nothing too hardcore, no nudity when the dom and sub play since they're highschool students. Otherwise even without that its highly erotic. Japanese comics are read right...

I actually think that using cuffs or jumping straight to impact play, especially for a novice dom, is too much. You need a certain level of trust between the two of you for bondage and without having any experience with impact play gauging how much you're hurting you're sub is too much. You...

I just thought of this party game that might be fun. A group of submissives stands in line (clothing optional) blindfolded. Each has a remote controlled vibrating toy, dildo or plug, inserted into their pussy or ass. Either each Dom(me) or just one has the remotes. The object of the...

You yourself know best about what you find humiliating. Think of the most embarrassing thing that could happen and then willingly and purposefully ensure that it happens to you. I suggest this, because as a sub you should want to please your dom. Choosing something that is the most...

Well, I think you should talk with your sub about this if you haven't already. Make sure you're both on the same page. Get her/him to open up about why she/he wants to submit in a 24/7 situation. What are her/his expectations? What are her/his motivations? I think setting up a set of rules...

Unfortunately for me enemas aren't a pleasurable experience. Though I've had to have a handful of them administered in the past. From those experiences I'd advise that you research the effects of what you're going to be using for the enema. I've had a few different kinds and each behaved...

Another thing I wanted to point out as a possibility is possible past trauma on her part. This is a new relationship for you so you're still learning things about her. People who've had trauma in their past specifically of a sexual abuse nature can and often do have 'triggers' that can affect...

First I'd suggest figuring out if that kind of 'consensual forced sex' is something you need. Is it one of your kinks or was it one of your ex-girlfriend's kinks that you enjoyed? Either way you probably should talk to her about it. In any relationship but especially bdsm influenced ones(one...

As sebastian said many aspects of bdsm seem paradoxical and contradictory. This, I think, stems from the concept that some emotions and sensations are much more vibrant and much more powerful if there is another emotion/sensation to contrast it. Without the contrast of pain the pleasure just...

(Note: My idea only works if you mean having sex with someone else when you say 'breaking trust'.) If you're not averse to the idea perhaps you could bring in a third party for her to have sex with. You could make her watch you watching her get fucked. Maybe forced lesbianism? Have you...

Make your own ball gag. You could probably do it with a superball from a toy store and a couple ft of duct tape. You could fold the duct tape in half length wise so there's no sticky showing. If you put a mouth sized superball in the center and fold the tape so it sticks to the ball and then...

You could go kind of aristocratic or feudal with the names. Maybe see if calling him 'My lord' or 'My liege' will work? That could be a route either of you could research, because the nobility of any culture was all about power over others. As for kinky shit you can do for his pleasure only...

Actually, I figure its likely the opposite in some cases. A few of those commentors could very well have in the past submitted sexually and just never consciously acknowledged it as submissive behavior. I mean, a majority of common sexual positions themselves more easily allow for male...

I read erotica from time to time. A bunch of stuff, from vanilla to Ben & Jerry's 31 flavors. I've even read 50 shades. EUGHK. Horrible representation of bdsm, really, just not bdsm at all. What I'm looking for are some recommendations for novels where bdsm is accurately portrayed. I'd...

If you're a beginner sadist my advice would be to start slow. Especially when it comes to inflicting pain its important to have control of it. You'd probably want to do as sebastian says and try impact play first. Learn everything you can about the hows and whys. Learn how much strength you...