Recent content by Boundperil

I have my sub write on the bottom of her feet with a sharpie marker. Also her inner thigh works well too.

Communication.

Dogs have owners, cats have staff....

Both. Like I said, it is...fluent. There are things that she can't do, has no desire to do, will not do. I have fetishes that I need fulfilled. I have tried to walk away from them, ignore them. That has made my life unbearable in a lot of ways. We came to an agreement of being able to...

It has to be in the open, with communication a must. I have been living like this for a long time, and it is not easy. There is a balance, it is very delicate, even still, there are constant bumps in the road. However, if you want it bad, you can make it work with the right partner. I...

No one ever sends me anything :p

That is very good advice.

I've seen worse things done too....... Always have a list of hard and soft limits lol.

I will say yes and no. I have been a sub, it does give you a feeling of what your sub is going through as you torment them as a Dom. But I don't think it makes you a better Dom on all fronts. The time spent there, I enjoyed. I liked knowing what my sub is going through.

I think the only way you can truly find out is to talk to them. I know, that is a catch-22 in a sense. But I think a good Dom will get to know their sub before they ever take them on. It is a two way street, you both have to have your kinks met. No matter what anyone tells, the sub truly...

Kaj. Stop feeling self pity! Your eyes have been opened, let it flow. I can not speak for others, I've been doing this for about 20 years, I started off with no idea of what I wanted, just knowing that certain things got my very hot. You are coming to terms with yourself, which is good. We...

The guy is going to be very lonely and should learn how to speak. I kinda of stopped reading it, to much of a head trip for me. However, many people out there like him, he just wrote it out. The guy does have some series issues, but at least you know to stay away from him.

I agree with you. The reason I don't use them is for the problems you have had. I think a lot of times, people don't know what they want, or are afraid to admit to it, even on a fetish forum.

Do you get it :p

I will stop from my general rant of posers want-a-be doms out there. Limits are just that, limits. Hard limits are not to be touched. End of story. I request a list of soft and hard before I ever play with someone. If you don't have one, then you create one. I also have my desires that...