Recent content by arsynrose

Well what do you do when you really feel a calling to be a submissive but the person your in love with is uncomfortable with it and prefers you to be more dominant than you really are?

It can be used, I've used it as a way to deal with my past abuse. It can even work if the person is a submissive, because nothing is being taken (no matter how BDSM looks) the sub is giving themselves to the dominant one freely. Just beware of unresolved anger and fear no matter what your role is.

Has any Master/Mistress out there had a sub or slave that no matter how much pain you caused them they where just totally silent, like nothing effects them? How do you handle this, can it be dealt with? To the sub/slave is there any out there that have this problem?

there is a thing out there called a coated tongue..it sometimes happens to people who have allergies to milk and dairy its simply a thick white coating on your tongue..but if you eat too much dairy or things too spicy it can create painful temporary sores on your tongue that look like thrush (i...

i've been looking for an online pet/slave or a while now, but I've just realized (and I'm glad I did before I actually found someone) that I have no idea how to handle an online/long distance pet/slave. So before I find the right one is there any advice someone would like to give me that would...

thank you Sparrow this is exactly what i told him!:p

My boyfriend doesn't believe there is such a thing as a"switch" that you have to be either dominant or a sub, i don't believe him...there are times i want to take over and use the whip on him and there are times when i want to be whipped and i do both..i enjoy both. but he doesnt believe me! is...

OMGim happy for the both of you!!

if your going to cut make quick slices instead of long drawn out ones..quicker movements seem to go deeper without going to deep. i find razors from box cutters work best. thighs scar easy so do arms so go light there. um keep all things clean..this is a MUST. good luck have fun

ever since i was a little girl like 6-7 i suppose...i like rape fantasy and bondage...but i also fantasize about being the dominant..i just can never find anyone i trust enough to be a sub or dominant!!

alcohol is dangerous on its own so add that to a BDSM scene, which can be dangerous on its own some times, and you get a disaster!!!

screw or bolt a hook in the middle of the bedroom ceiling, tie a rope or chain under the bed from head to foot going up to the hook and you can hang her there in the middle of the room...i dont think i described that right though.

patience,love, and a understanding of the rules....no hesitation on the masters part to punish when needed, over all master and slave must trust and care about each other. and yes a slave MUST know what pleases and displeases master so should a master know what pleases and displeases a slave...

i could definatly see being caged for a weekend or as punishment but 24/7 i think id go mad!

is there anyone close to allentown PA that would like to be a Dom to a 24 yr old 160 pound blond haired blue eyed sub for light bondage? i dont drive and i live with others so we'd have to be discreet. please email me at [email protected]