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    Failing miserably at not being dominated

    Thank you for the wonderful advice Sebastian, although I'm definitely not a novice when it comes to sucking, this guy is actually the only guy I've had sex with but haven't sucked, which makes me feel like a bitch. I just generally am instructed to do it and don't need to figure out how to get...
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    Failing miserably at not being dominated

    Oh I guess I wasn't completely clear, I don't want to explore power exchange with him, I basically just want to tell him that it's not that I don't like giving blow jobs, it's just that I'm an awkward mess and he just needs to ask/suggest it. I realize it would be best to just be able to...
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    Failing miserably at not being dominated

    So I recently got out of a 3 year completely vanilla relationship (where we rarely had sex anyway) and started getting back to my submissive side and playing with that, meaning a few hook ups with guys who were varying degrees of dominant. Now I've run into the problem where I met this guy that...
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    Dom/sub signs?

    For me personally I guess there have always been "signs" that I was submissive. Mainly in regards to strange things I used to think about and even fantasize about, not necessarily sexual either, just dealing with being restrained and other things. I can think of some fantasies from when I was a...
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    50 shades...sorry to bring it up again but

    Well it's also dangerous because women now want this type of man and might convince themselves that the abusive qualities are romantic and go out openly searching for a man who may portray these. "Ohh he's angry, he cares about me." or "He looked up every little detail about me, he really wants...
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    Slave rights

    I'm sorry if I seemed rude, I've been a bit grumpy today, so that may have come across in my earlier post ^^! This is just a thought I'd figure I share, I'm not sure if it will help you or if you've thought about it. (Hey, I may be playing the role of Captain Obvious over here, but it can't...
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    Slave rights

    You may have sent her a lot of information and you may have talked to her about it, however it does appear to me that there was a lack of communication on the limits aspect of your relationship. You can send her all the information on the internet, however that is not going to properly inform...
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    Poll: Group Chat Times

    Alright, so if the times are in EST and I am currently in the state of New York I should add one hour to figure it out, right (because I'm in EDT)? I'm just trying to clarify because the UK and the East Coast of the US are 5 hours apart for I think 50 weeks out of the year, not 4. Not trying...
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    Did you come here because of 50 Shades of Grey? Then read this

    Oh no, I was just trying to say that I bothered my boyfriend for 2 whole hours while he was driving complaining about the book. It actually took me 24 hours to read (I didn't stop...).
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    Did you come here because of 50 Shades of Grey? Then read this

    I read it and I loved it, I have no idea why though (I think I'm just so masochistic that I decided to torture myself with this book). Granted I started skipping all the Sex scenes because they were just so blehhh. The entire time I was just complaining about poorly written it was and how stupid...
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    Playing when Ticklish

    I am incredibly ticklish on most of my body, I'm not just talking a tiny bit ticklish, I'm talking merely graze over me and I burst into giggles, ticklish. I can be touched as long as they are firm grasps or touches and not light strokes. I absolutely hate it and I hate being tickled (I get...
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